Looks can be deceiving. Often times in our rush through the day we may glance someone’s direction, make a quick judgement that they look alright and then keep moving along.

How many times in a day do we say or hear the phrase “how are you doing?”

How many times do we truly mean it?

Would we know if someone actually is not doing well?

If we do sense that they are not doing alright will we stop, listen and offer some assistance, comfort or encouragement?

Everyone can use a hand from time to time. Everyone also includes you and me.

We try to be strong. We appear to be strong.

Often times we have to be strong but that doesn’t mean it would be nice to have some help carrying the load from time to time.

If we know how it feels to carry that heavy load that is all the more reason to be in tune with the load that others may be carrying. Stop, lean in and listen.

Maybe today you can help to lighten somebody else’s load. Helping them will actually help to lighten any load you may be carrying as well.

Be aware of those moments and opportunities.

I’m cheering for you.

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#bebetter #beblessed

Are you intrigued by storms? I must confess that although I am not a storm chaser I do enjoy seeing the storm clouds roll in and deliver whatever it is they bring within the clouds.

I admit that I can say that because I have not lived through deadly weather. If you have I do not mean to minimize the legitimate terror that comes with catastrophic weather events so I am speaking about “routine” storms.

Just like a summer storm sometimes in our lives we can see and anticipate the storms coming our way. At other times the storms can pop up and blow in very quickly and without much warning.

No matter how the storm shows up, announced or unannounced, or how intense it may be you can be confident that it will eventually pass.

In the middle of your storm it may seem like it will never end but do not lose hope because the storm will pass and on the other side of it you will be better, you will be stronger and you will see things more clearly.

I’m cheering for you.

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#bebetter #beblessed

What is stirring inside of you? Are you feeling like you need to explore doing something? If so, what is holding you back?

If you just spend your time thinking about what you should do then you join the majority.  So many, too many, people spend too much time talking themselves out of things instead of being brave enough to follow the stirring in the heart and soul.

To lead and to be a person that creates positive change you must listen to your heart and follow your instincts.  Plan, execute the plan, evaluate the results and then readjust, but you must act.

If you choose not to act on what stirs inside of you it will not only affect you but you will miss an opportunity that could benefit others.

Trust your heart, trust your soul then plan and act on it.  That stirring inside of you is there for a reason.

I’m Cheering For You.

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Have you ever noticed that some people just love to create drama?  They love to stir things up by seeking attention, talking about others and can’t stand it when things seem calm.

In the movie American Gangster the main character, Frank Lucas, has a great quote. “The loudest one in the room is the weakest one in the room.”  Take a step back and observe this and see how many times it is true.  It is amazing to see the truth in this statement.

Today, and every day, stay above the fray. Don’t get caught up in the negative places some people will try to take you.

There is even a chance that by you staying in a calm and positive place you can help those who enjoy chaos see their negative ways and begin to make a positive change.

Either way positive wins.  It may not always seem like it but it eventually will.  It always does.

I’m cheering for you.

#leadership #motivation #coaching #bebetter #beblessed

We could all use this in our life but let’s start by giving it first.

The most important part of this is the first line.  Be Present.

To do any of the others and make a difference doing what follows that first line you have to make sure you are present first.

Being present means being fully present and engaged in the moment.  Not just your physical body in the same place but fully present, intentional and engaged using all of your senses.

Being present and in the moment requires discipline.  Discipline from being distracted.

Once you can be fully present you are then ready to make a difference by being kind, complimenting people and helping them to use their strengths.

Make a difference in your world today.

I’m cheering for you.

#leadership #motivation #coaching
#bebetter #beblessed