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Hustle

As we wrap up our section of “The Pursuit”, thinking about our dreams, I want to challenge you with one final thought.  What dreams do you have in front of you today? 

You probably already know there is no magic formula to make them a reality.  Sorry, you won’t find it here either.

Everybody has dreams but very few have the perseverance to continue to pursue them.  If your dream is worth it here is what I suggest you do. 

Get up!

Show up!

Keep moving!

Chase it!

Pursue it!

If you think you can achieve your dream without doing any of those things then your dream is not big enough and you need to enlarge what it is that you are pursuing and dreaming of doing. 

There are lots of dreams out there.  Very few dreams are ever realized because we think the dream should happen in our timing. 

The dream will happen when we’re ready and when the time is right.  Our job is to be faithful to today by showing up, doing the work and continuing to run toward our dream.  

The time will be right when the time is right.  Keep moving.  Keep showing up, and keep hustling.  

I’m cheering for you.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue 

1.  How do you maintain motivation and perseverance while pursuing a dream that seems distant or uncertain? What strategies can help you stay focused and resilient during challenging times?

2.  Reflecting on your current dreams and goals, do you feel they are ambitious enough? If not, how might you expand your vision to pursue something that challenges you and encourages personal growth?

Hebrews 12:1-2 ESV‬
[1] Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, [2] looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.

Pursuing a dream is much like running a race—it takes focus, perseverance, and the ability to overcome obstacles. 

Hebrews 12:1-2 draws a vivid picture of this journey, urging us to “throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles.” 

When you’re chasing a dream, you need to identify and remove anything that might slow you down or divert your attention. This could mean breaking bad habits, confronting fears, or moving past setbacks.

But running this race isn’t something you do alone.  Hebrews reminds us that we’re surrounded by a “great cloud of witnesses.”

This cloud can be your friends, family, mentors, and even your spiritual community—those who inspire, encourage, and support you along the way.

As you pursue your dreams, keep your eyes fixed on the ultimate goal.  The passage calls us to “fix our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith.” 

This focus can guide you through the most challenging parts of the journey, providing a source of strength and a reminder of why you’re running in the first place.

No matter how difficult the path, perseverance is key.  When you’re tempted to give up, remember that achieving your dream requires endurance and faith.

Just as the race has a finish line, your dream has a destination. Stay the course, knowing that with perseverance, you’ll reach it.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  In what ways do you need to “throw off everything that hinders” as you pursue your dreams?  Identify one habit, mindset, or obstacle that you can start working on to make your path to success smoother.

2.  Who are the key people in your “great cloud of witnesses” who support and inspire you on your journey toward achieving your dreams?  How can you strengthen these relationships to build a more robust support system as you persevere toward your goals?

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Strength From The Stillness

In moments of trial and uncertainty, silence can be our greatest strength.  When Jesus stood before Herod, He chose silence over defense, knowing that true power doesn’t always need words. 

His stillness wasn’t weakness—it was a demonstration of profound trust in God’s plan.  Christ lived in perfect peace, and offers peace to each of us too. 

Psalm 46:10 invites us into that same stillness: “Be still and know that I am God.”  It is in our quiet moments that we connect with him.   By cutting through the noise and distractions of life, we create space to truly experience God’s presence.

Take a moment today to pause, breathe, and embrace the quiet.  Let the stillness remind you that you’re not alone, and that there’s a higher power guiding your path. 

Through silence, we find clarity; through stillness, we find strength.  Allow yourself to be comforted and consumed in the calm, and let God’s Spirit refresh your soul.

Be Still.
Be Blessed!

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Trust And Live

There is so much to unpack in these four lines. These four lines could easily be turned into a monster discussion, writing or podcast.

Today though, think about your dreams, your story and how what has happened to you has lined up to put you on the path you are walking.

Trust that the things that have happened to you have happened so you can use them for your good and to also help you to help others.

As you reflect on your dreams and your story you can then live your life on purpose and with a purpose.

You have been given a sphere of influence that is directly related to your dreams and your story.

You are where you are right now for a reason doing what you are doing with the people who need you to do it.  Be faithful to that.

I’m Cheering For You.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How can reflecting on past experiences and understanding their impact on your journey help you find a sense of purpose and direction in life?

2.  In what ways can recognizing your unique story and sphere of influence inspire you to make a positive impact on those around you?

Ephesians 2:10 ESV‬

[10] For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them. 

Remember that you are not here by chance. You are God’s handiwork, crafted with care and intention.  

Ephesians 2:10 is an encouraging reminder that you were created in Christ Jesus to do good works that God has prepared in advance.  

This truth means that your story, your dreams, and your unique path are part of a greater plan.

Each experience you’ve had, every challenge you’ve faced, is a piece of a puzzle that God is piecing together. 

Don’t underestimate the impact of your journey.  Your life has purpose and meaning. You were designed to be a light in the world, to bring hope, and to make a difference. 

Embrace your God-given gifts and talents.  Let your faith guide you as you step into the works that God has prepared for you. 

Be bold, be courageous, and trust that He is leading you in the right direction.  Keep walking in His purpose, knowing that you are exactly where you need to be to fulfill His divine plan.

Be Blessed!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue 

1.  How can the understanding that we are “God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works” change the way you view your own value and purpose in life?

2.  What are some practical steps you can take to discover and fulfill the “good works” that God has prepared for you in advance?

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Reach Into the Ditch

Life has a way of pushing some to the edges, like forgotten cars rusting on a side road.  It’s easy to overlook those who once shone brightly but have since slipped into shadows.

When Elton John rediscovered Leon Russell, he saw more than just a musical icon—he saw a soul in need of revival.

Elton’s call to collaborate wasn’t just about making music; it was about reaching into that metaphorical ditch and offering a hand. 

When Leon Russell was inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, he said, “Elton came and pulled me out of the ditch of life.”  This simple act of reaching out brought him back into the spotlight, giving him new life and purpose.

It’s a powerful reminder that we all have the potential to be that hand for someone else.  As Christ followers, we’re called to be the hands and feet of Jesus, reaching out to those who are in their own ditches of life.

Whether it’s a word of encouragement, an act of service, or simply a listening ear, we have the power to bring light to someone’s darkness.

Take a moment to think about someone who might be feeling forgotten or overlooked.  Your act of kindness could be the very thing that helps them find their way back. 

Elton did a good deed.  That’s nice, and that’s where it can start.  But as a relationship grows you can offer them something more. 

Offer them Jesus too and a real life of change, not just out of the ditch, but on the freeway to a better and more meaningful journey.

Be the one who pulls someone out of the ditch, and maybe more—just like Jesus has done for you and me.

Be Blessed! 
Bless Others!

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Kobe

Kobe Bryant, the late NBA legend, famously talked about the “Mamba Mentality,” a relentless commitment to excellence.

He didn’t just dream of being a great basketball player; he defined exactly who he wanted to be. Kobe’s vision was clear: he wanted to be the best, and that required unwavering dedication.

Instead of just wishing for greatness, he put in the hours, getting up at 4 AM for grueling training sessions.  He didn’t let setbacks deter him, whether it was injuries or missed game-winning shots.

Kobe’s approach was simple: work harder and smarter than anyone else.  His commitment to his goals inspired a generation of athletes.

He proved that to become the person you want to be, you must act with purpose and consistency.  It’s not enough to visualize success; you must build it through focused action and a refusal to give up.

His life and career serve as a testament to the power of defining who you want to be and then doing whatever it takes to make it a reality.

Your challenge:
Over the next seven days, commit to a small, specific, and measurable goal that aligns with the person you want to become.

Whether it’s waking up 30 minutes earlier to exercise, dedicating time to learn something new, or focusing on a daily act of kindness, stick to it without excuses.

Track your progress each day and reflect on how your actions are moving you closer to your goal.

At the end of the week, assess what you accomplished, how it felt, and whether you’re becoming the person you aspire to be.

Consistency is key. If you meet your goal for a week, you’ve made a step toward lasting change.

Share your results with someone who can keep you accountable, and keep pushing forward.  Contact me if I can help you.

You got this! 

I’m cheering for you.

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Dreams In Action

One of the saddest phrases we can ever say is “what if?”.  We can become paralyzed by a fear of trying something because of the unknown but that is no way to live.

As mentioned last week, one of the biggest dreams in my head 25 years ago was coaching college basketball. 

After a fantastic two year experience I felt my calling and place to be was back at the high school level. 

The good thing was I didn’t have to say “what if?”.  I’m grateful for that. 

Trust your abilities, your instincts and lean on those around you that can be of support to you as you pursue your dream.  I am grateful for my family for constantly joining me in pursuing my dreams. 

Your dream, in fact, may also help someone around you believe that they can accomplish their dream too. 

The first step toward your dream has to be your first step.  Have faith, be brave and dream.  Then go to work.

I’m cheering for you.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  What dreams or aspirations do you have that you’ve been hesitant to pursue, and how can you overcome the fear of the unknown to take the first step towards them?
 
2.  Who in your life can you lean on for support and encouragement as you work towards achieving your dreams, and how can you reciprocate that support for others in their pursuits?

Do Not Fear

Many times, pursuing your dreams can seem daunting.  The path ahead might be unclear, and fear can make it seem impossible to take that first step.

Isaiah 41:10 says, “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”

This scripture is a profound reminder that even when we’re facing uncertainty, God is always with us, ready to support and guide us on our journey.

Think about your dreams and goals.  Maybe you’re holding back because you’re unsure of the outcome or afraid of failure.  The truth is, you don’t have to face these fears alone.

God promises to strengthen and help you.  His presence means that no matter what challenges arise, you have a constant source of support and encouragement.

As you pursue your dreams, keep Isaiah 41:10 in your heart.  Remember that God’s righteous right hand is there to uphold you, providing you with the strength and courage to take bold steps toward your goals. 

Trust in His promise, and know that you can overcome any obstacle with His guidance.  Don’t be afraid to dream big and take risks.

The journey might be challenging, but with God by your side, there’s nothing you can’t achieve.  Trust Him, move forward, and embrace the adventure that comes with pursuing your dreams.

You’ll be amazed at what you can accomplish when you let go of fear and rely on God’s unfailing support.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  What dreams or aspirations have you been hesitant to pursue due to fear or uncertainty, and how can you apply the promise of Isaiah 41:10 to overcome these fears?

2.  How does knowing that God is with you, strengthening and upholding you, influence your approach to achieving your dreams? In what ways can this assurance encourage you to take bold steps towards your goals?

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Long Term Character

Ephesians 6:11-13:
“Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes.  For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world, and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.  Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.”

In a world that’s constantly pushing you toward shortcuts, compromise, and instant gratification, holding onto your character is like holding onto a lifeline.

It’s not just about being a good person; it’s about standing firm in your beliefs when everything around you seems to be pulling you in the opposite direction.

Character is your armor against a world that wants to seduce you, buy you, tempt you, and change you into someone you’re not.  It’s the inner compass that guides you when you’re faced with difficult choices.

It’s what keeps you true to your word, even when it would be easier to break it. It’s what compels you to do the right thing, even when no one is watching.

In the short term, it might seem like character doesn’t pay off.  You might find others advancing faster because they took the easier route or bent the rules.

But character is about thinking long-term.  It’s about understanding that the choices you make today will define who you become tomorrow.  It’s about building a foundation of trust, integrity, and respect that will stand the test of time.

So, when you’re faced with temptation, remember that your character is what sets you apart.  It’s what gives you strength when the world wants you to bend. It’s what allows you to walk away from what doesn’t align with your values, even if it costs you in the moment. 

Because in the end, it’s not about what you gain or lose; it’s about who you become.

Stand firm.  Hold on to your principles.  Let your character be your guide.  Because the world needs people who can’t be bought, who won’t be swayed, and who will stay true to themselves no matter the cost.

Be that person. It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it. 
Put on the armor.

Be Blessed!

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Dreams and Divine Plans

The Journey to Nebraska Christian College

May 2, 2024

(Part 2)

Jeremiah 29:11 ESV‬

[11] For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope. 

In 1999, I found myself at a crossroads, feeling uneasy and burnt out from my job in K-12 Physical Education.  There was a sense that I was meant for something more, but I couldn’t pinpoint exactly what that was.  I knew I needed a new challenge, but the path ahead seemed unclear. 

The thought of taking on more responsibility, perhaps as an athletic director, seemed like a distant dream, especially with my friend holding that role in Manning.  Opportunities for advancement were slim.

One day, I came across a job posting for a coaching position at Nebraska Christian College in Norfolk, NE.  This opportunity was intriguing for several reasons—it was where my parents had graduated, my sister had attended, and it was located in the city where I was born. 

Coaching college basketball and taking on the role of athletic director were not just any positions; they were dream jobs that combined my passion for sports with my desire to lead and make a difference.

Despite the excitement, I was hesitant. Should I uproot my family, leave behind our close-knit community, and pursue a dream that could turn out differently from what I imagined? 

I remember sitting at the dining room table on a Saturday morning, reading a devotional, when I came across Jeremiah 29:11—”For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” 

This scripture spoke to my heart, giving me the reassurance I needed to pursue my dream.  It was the nudge I needed to move forward, knowing that God was leading the way.With newfound clarity, my family and I decided to take the leap, and we moved to Norfolk in the summer of 1999. 

Those two years at Nebraska Christian College turned out to be more than I could have hoped for—they became a defining chapter in my journey, impacting not only my career but also my family’s future. 

Here’s how our dreams intertwined with God’s plans:

A Family Connection: 

My oldest daughter got to know the college during our time in Norfolk and later decided to attend there.  It’s also where she met her future husband.  This connection felt like part of God’s plan, a dream that He orchestrated in ways we couldn’t have anticipated.

Spiritual Growth and Mentorship: 

My friend Shane Coop, the worship pastor at First Christian Church, introduced me to contemporary worship music and showed me what authentic worship looks like.  His mentorship was a pivotal moment in my spiritual journey, expanding my understanding of faith and worship.  It felt like a dream to work with someone who could guide me in such a meaningful way.

Coaching and Impact: 

Coaching college basketball was a long-held dream that I was able to realize at Nebraska Christian College.  Despite being a smaller college, it was still a significant opportunity to mentor and guide young athletes.  I was able to witness these young men grow, mature, and find success in their careers and personal lives.  It’s humbling to see how God used our time there to shape the lives of others.

The Gift of Experience: 

The role of Athletic Director, Dean of Students, and a college basketball coach allowed me to gain valuable administrative experience, setting the foundation for future leadership roles.  It was a dream come true to be in a position where I could make a difference and not have to ask “What if?” for the rest of my career.

Our time in Norfolk may have been brief, but the impact was lasting.  Jeremiah 29:11 became a life verse for me, a constant reminder that God’s plans are filled with hope and a future.  

The dream of coaching college basketball, beginning my journey as an athletic director, and leading a team became a reality, all because I took a step of faith and trusted in God’s guidance.

Dreams can sometimes feel distant or out of reach, but when we align our dreams with God’s will, we can see the beauty of His perfect plan. 

As you pursue your own dreams, remember that God’s timing is always perfect, and even the briefest moments can have a profound impact on the rest of your life. 

Trust in Him, embrace the journey, and be blessed as you follow the path He has set for you.

Be Blessed!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue 

1.  How have seemingly brief or unexpected experiences in your life contributed to the fulfillment of your dreams, and how did you recognize God’s guidance in those moments?

2.  Reflecting on Jeremiah 29:11, what steps can you take to align your dreams with God’s plans, and how can you find reassurance during times of uncertainty or transition?

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Dream

May 2, 2024

(Part 1)

Many dreams don’t make it out of the “thinking about it” stage.

Why?

You tell yourself:

It’s too risky. 

It’s not the right time. 

It will be uncomfortable. 

I probably couldn’t do it anyway. 

I’m too old to dream.

I don’t have enough experience.

Excuses derail more dreams than the consequences of the dreams.

If you dream about it, if you’re willing to put work into your dreams, then you have a chance of living life with your dream.

There are no guarantees except that if you don’t dream, and if you fill your life with excuses, then you will have no chance of doing anything but watching others make their dreams come true.

Don’t be a spectator to other people’s dreams. Have your own dreams, have a plan,  and then work the plan toward your dreams, but it all starts with your dream.

You have another choice to make.  You can keep thinking about your dream or you can start pursuing, and then living, your dream.  

I’m cheering for you.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How can you overcome the excuses that prevent you from pursuing your dreams, and what specific steps can you take to move from “thinking about it” to “living it”?

2.  What are some of the potential risks and rewards of pursuing a dream, and how can you find the courage to embrace uncertainty in order to pursue your goals?

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Why Do I Do What I Do

Have you ever taken a moment to reflect on why you do what you do?  I mean really thought about it.  We often get caught up in the routines and craziness of life, moving from one task to the next without a second thought.

But when we step back and ask ourselves, “What’s driving me?” we can find a deeper sense of purpose that guides us through even the most challenging times.

For me, writing isn’t just a hobby or a way to make a living—though earning some money from it would be pretty cool, I’m not going to lie.  But that’s not the core reason I write.

I write to express myself, to share my feelings, my experiences, and my journey through this crazy, beautiful life. 

It’s my way of making sense of the world and inviting others to join me in the process.  At the heart of my writing is something much bigger than myself—it’s the desire to lift up the name of Jesus. 

I’ve tried it on my own and failed.  He’s my one true hope, the rock that keeps me grounded when everything else feels like it’s falling apart. 

I know not everyone believes in the same things I do, but I hope my words can offer a glimpse of the peace and strength that I find in my faith.

Every time I sit down to write, I think about that one person.  You know, the one who might be having a rough day, feeling lost, or just needing a bit of encouragement. 

If I can make a difference for just one person, if I can bring a little light into their day, then I know I’m doing something worthwhile.

So, why do I do what I do?  Because words have power.  They can heal, inspire, and connect us in ways nothing else can.

Because life is too short not to share our stories, our truths, and our hope. 

Because there’s someone out there who needs to hear what I have to say, and I don’t want to miss that chance.  Not because I’m wise,but because God can use everything we do for good if we let him.

If you’re reading this, I want you to know that you matter.  Your story matters.  Whatever you’re going through, you’re not alone.

Keep searching for what drives you, what gives you purpose, and don’t be afraid to share it with the world.  You never know who might be inspired by your journey. 

Be Blessed!

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Pursue The Unseen

Seek the Unseen:  Live with Eternal Vision

As believers, we’re surrounded by a world that prioritizes the visible, the tangible, the fleeting.  

We are bombarded daily with messages that encourage us to chase after material success, social status, and instant gratification.  Yet, in the midst of this, God’s word calls us to a higher perspective—a view that goes beyond what our eyes can see and our hands can touch.

In 2 Corinthians 4:18, the Apostle Paul reminds us that “we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen.  For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.”  

This verse calls us to lift our eyes above the temporary and focus on the eternal.

When we seek the unseen, we shift our priorities.  We begin to see that relationships, faith, love, and spiritual growth are more valuable than any material possession or fleeting moment of fame.  

We understand that our identity in Christ is more important than any title or achievement.  We recognize that the unseen Kingdom of God has greater significance than the visible structures of this world.

To seek the unseen means to live with eternal vision.  

It means investing in people, not just things.  

It means sowing seeds of faith, hope, and love, even when the results aren’t immediately visible.  

It means trusting that God’s work in us and through us has lasting impact, even when we don’t always see it.

Jesus said, “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven” (Matthew 6:19-20).  

When we seek the unseen, we are laying up heavenly treasures—building a legacy of faith that will outlast any earthly accomplishment.

Today, I encourage you to seek the unseen in your life.  

Look beyond the distractions and the noise of this world.  

Find the beauty in simple acts of kindness.  

Embrace the peace that comes from a deep relationship with God. 

Pursue the joy that comes from knowing you are part of a story that is much larger than yourself.

When we live with eternal vision, we find strength in trials, hope in uncertainty, and purpose in our daily lives. 

We realize that our journey is not just about the here and now, but about the greater story that God is weaving through us.

Let us seek and pursue the unseen together, trusting that God’s unseen hand is guiding us, His unseen love is sustaining us, and His unseen promises are the true treasures worth pursuing.

Be Blessed!

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Look Your Dreams Right In The Eyes

What dreams are you chasing? 
Do they look menacing and intimidating as you look at them?  Do they cast a shadow as you look at them?

They should.
They must. 
If they don’t, they aren’t worth chasing.

We often conceive big dreams big, but then at the first sign of adversity we retreat back into the comfort of mediocrity. I

Don’t do it! 
Chase your dreams.
Pursue your dreams.

Look your dreams square in the eyes and go to work moment by moment to make them a reality.

The purpose of life is not to arrive safely at the end of your journey.  If you just look for the safe path you will be turning your back on dreams that are bigger than you are and you will settle for the status quo.

So hear you are with a decision to make. Pursue and chase your dreams, or turn and run away.  If you run away you will be running away the rest of your life.

It’s time to pursue.

I’m cheering for you.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  What happens if you shrink from pursuing dreams that initially seemed daunting?

2.  How does embracing discomfort and adversity contribute to the pursuit of meaningful goals?

Certainty Amidst Uncertainty

Matthew 19:26 ESV‬

[26] But Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible“. 

In the journey of pursuing your dreams, there are moments when the path ahead seems insurmountable, and doubts begin to cloud your mind.  Yet, in those moments of uncertainty, draw strength from the words of Jesus. 

Matthew 19:26 will remind you that with man, many dreams may appear impossible to achieve.  The obstacles before you may seem too daunting, the challenges too overwhelming. 

But in the face of these seemingly insurmountable odds, Jesus assures you of a truth that transcends human limitations: “With God, all things are possible.”

As a follower of Christ, you are called to live a  life of faith, courage, and perseverance.  You are called to trust in the power of the Creator, who holds the universe in His hands. 

When you align your dreams with God’s purpose for your life, there is no limit to what you can accomplish.

So, my friend, do not be discouraged by the enormity of your dreams.  Do not allow fear to paralyze you or doubts to hold you back. 

Instead, press on with unwavering faith, knowing that your Heavenly Father is with you every step of the way.

When the road ahead seems long and difficult, remember that God is your ever-present help in times of need. 

No matter how impossible your dreams may seem, trust in the power of God to make them a reality.  With His strength, His guidance, and His unfailing love, there is nothing that can stand in the way of His plans for your life.

So, rise up with renewed determination and faith.  Continue to pursue your dreams with boldness and confidence, knowing that with God, all things are possible.

Be Blessed!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue 

1.  How can the belief in God’s power to make all things possible influence your approach to pursuing your dreams?

2.  In what ways can you cultivate unwavering faith in God amidst challenges and doubts while chasing your dreams?

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Go After Your Dreams

But align them with God’s plans for you.  Then they are beautiful and meaningful dreams.

I am a fan of American Idol…again.  Deb and I enjoy watching the amazing talent that these young people have.  Absolutely terrific talent.

In one episode last year Luke Bryan had the final 10 contestants at one of his concerts and was talking to them all on his tour bus when he dropped this quote. 

“Don’t outrun your dreams.  Take a step back to enjoy the little things along the way.”

It is great advice whether you are a 20 year old aspiring American Idol, a 60+ year old pursuing new dreams, or anyone in between, or even beyond the age of 60.

I believe that what Luke was telling them was that they also need to make sure to keep the proper perspective. 

We only get one chance at this life.  Don’t run so fast after your dreams that you miss what really matters. 

What really matters may look a little different to each of us, so whatever it is that matters to you keep those things within reach, even as you run after your dreams.

I’m cheering for you.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How can you ensure that in the pursuit of your dreams, you maintain a balance between ambition and appreciating the present moment, as Luke Bryan advises to not miss what really matters in life?

2.  Reflecting on Luke Bryan’s advice, what strategies can you employ to identify and prioritize what truly matters to us personally, while actively pursuing your dreams and aspirations?

Matthew 6:33 ESV‬

[33] But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.

As Christ followers, we are called to seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness.  

This timeless directive reminds us that our pursuit of dreams should align with God’s perfect plan for our lives.  When we prioritize seeking God’s will above our own desires, we open ourselves to His divine guidance and provision.

In the journey of pursuing your dreams, it’s easy to become consumed by earthly ambitions and lose sight of your spiritual calling. 

However, when you keep your focus on God’s kingdom, you will find true fulfillment and purpose. 

Every dream you pursue becomes an opportunity to glorify God and serve His purposes on earth.

Be inspired by the words of Matthew 6:33 to persistently seek God’s will in all that you do. As you align your dreams with His divine plan, you can trust that He will lead you to paths of righteousness and abundance. 

Keep pursuing the dreams God has planted in your heart, knowing that He is faithful to fulfill them in His perfect timing.

Be Blessed!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How can you ensure that your pursuit of dreams aligns with God’s kingdom and righteousness, as emphasized in Matthew 6:33?

2.  What practical steps can you take to maintain a balance between pursuing your dreams and prioritizing your spiritual walk with God?

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The Pursuit of Dreams

In the last few weeks we have thought about the pursuit of change, growth and moments.  Now, let’s spend some time thinking about pursuing dreams. 

Dreams are the deep aspirations, desires, and visions that you and I hold in our hearts.  Dreams, when aligned right, put into our heart by God.

In the next few writings I want to challenge you to dream, but not just dream for yourself, but search for the dreams God wants for you. 

Dreams are a combination of your aspirations and the whispers of God’s promise. They serve as the compass guiding you through uncharted territories and the divine calling urging you to embrace your purpose.

Embrace your dreams with unwavering determination, for they are the blueprints of your destiny and the visions God has placed in your heart.  Let them ignite the fire within you, fueling your journey with passion and purpose.

Chase your dreams fearlessly, for in the pursuit, you discover your strength, resilience, and the limitless possibilities of the spirit inside of you.

Trust in God’s timing, provision, and infinite wisdom as you boldly pursue your dreams, for His plans for you are greater than you can imagine.

Hold fast to your dreams, surrendering them to His will, and watch as He brings them to fruition in His perfect time.

Keep dreaming, keep believing, for the world awaits the beauty only you, as a leader and Christ follower, can create.

Pursue Your Dreams.

Be Blessed!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How can you distinguish between your own aspirations and the whispers of God’s promises when discerning your dreams?

2.  What steps can you take to align your pursuit of dreams with God’s will and purpose for your life?

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Every Day

Every Day is special.

Every day is an opportunity.

Every day is new.

Every day is unique.

Every day is a gift.

This is not just any day.  This is a day that will never happen again.  The moments you are about to experience will happen only once.

This is a day that needs you.  You don’t know where, you don’t know how, and you don’t know when, but you need to be ready for this once in a lifetime day.

This isn’t just any day.  This could be THE day.  Be ready and enjoy it.

I’m cheering for you.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How can we cultivate a mindset that appreciates the uniqueness and potential of each day?

2.  What practical steps can we take to approach each day with readiness and openness to embrace the opportunities it presents?

Rejoicing in Today: Finding Joy in God’s Daily Gifts

‭Psalm 118:24 ESV‬
[24] This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.

As a Christ follower, let the words of Psalm 118:24 resonate deeply in your heart.  Each day is a precious gift from the Lord, filled with countless opportunities to experience His love, grace, and presence.

In the hustle and bustle of life, it’s easy to overlook the significance of the present moment.  Yet, this verse reminds you to pause, to reflect, and to rejoice in the day that the Lord has made.

Today is not just another day on the calendar; it is a divine appointment with the Creator of the universe.

It is a day filled with possibilities, blessings, and moments to glorify God in all that you do.

Embrace each day with gratitude, with faith, and with a heart full of joy.  Seize the opportunities before you to spread love, kindness, and hope to those around you.

In doing so, you honor the One who has made this day possible.  So, rejoice and be glad in it, for this is the day that the Lord has made!

Be Blessed!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How can you cultivate a mindset of gratitude and joy in recognizing each day as a gift from the Lord?

2. What practical steps can you take to live each day intentionally, embracing the opportunities it presents to glorify God and spread His love to others?

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No Regrets

Eleanor Roosevelt achieved a lot in her life and was asked once how she was able to accomplish so much in her lifetime.  

She responded by saying “I never waste time with regrets.”

How much time do we waste thinking about and living with things that have happened, either to us or because of our own actions?

Too much time?

A regret is a feeling of sadness, repentance, or disappointment over something that has happened or been done, especially a loss or missed opportunity. 

Being able to overcome those things takes strength, courage and intentional repeated actions because, as much as we would like them not to, tough things are going to happen and we will mess up plenty on our own. 

But that doesn’t have to be the end of the story.  Living in the moment requires learning from the past, but not living in it or with regrets of what we experienced or what we did, or did not do. 

We will be at our best, continue to become more, and contribute more positively to those around us when we, like Eleanor Roosevelt, do not waste time with regrets. 

Do your best to move on and be engaged in the moments in front of you today.  Those are the moments that matter most. 

I’m cheering for you. 

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How does dwelling on past regrets hinder our ability to live fully in the present and contribute positively to our lives and the lives of others?

2.  What strategies can individuals employ to cultivate a mindset like Eleanor Roosevelt’s, where they do not waste time with regrets but instead focus on learning from the past and being fully engaged in the present moment?

Philippians 3:13 ESV‬

“Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead.”

In Philippians 3:13, the Apostle Paul reflects on his own journey of faith, acknowledging that he has not yet reached the pinnacle of spiritual maturity. 

Despite this, he emphasizes a singular focus: forgetting what lies behind and pressing forward toward what lies ahead. 

This verse highlights a timeless truth applicable to all aspects of life.  By letting go of past regrets, mistakes, and failures, individuals can free themselves from the burden of what cannot be changed. 

Instead, you are encouraged to channel your energy and efforts towards the present moment and the opportunities that await in the future. 

It’s a call to action, urging you to embrace each day with renewed determination and hope, knowing that God’s grace sustains you and His plans for you are filled with promise. 

In essence, Philippians 3:13 inspires a mindset of resilience, perseverance, and forward motion, essential for navigating life’s challenges and fulfilling your purpose.

Be Blessed!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How does the Christian faith inform your understanding of the importance of leaving behind past regrets and focusing on moving forward in your journey with God?

     a.  Is their anything in your life that you need to leave behind?

2.  In what ways do prayer, scripture study, and fellowship with other believers empower Christians to embody the principle of pressing forward in faith, despite past mistakes or hardships?

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Follow Your Path

Birthdays prompt reflection on life’s journey, marking milestones and lessons learned.  They inspire gratitude for growth, resilience, and cherished moments.

They provide opportunities to assess, reflect, and be thankful.  But, shouldn’t every day be a good day to that? 

As I reflect a bit on my journey and the path I have been on here are a few things that I have learned and attempt to apply daily.

1.  Family and friends make the day better.  Treasure them all.  They are gifts.
2. Moments matter.
3. Laugh.  Love.  Live.
4. Lead yourself.
5. Offer grace more than judgement.
6. Keep trying to be better every day.
7.  You don’t fail, you learn.
8.  Practice patience.
9.  Be humble.
10. Live each day with gratitude.

The path I have taken in my 61+ years of life isn’t for everybody and that’s alright.  We all have our own path and we need to embrace it and use it to help others.

Our experiences allow us to help others who may experience some of the same things we have experienced so the path you have been on has been for a reason and not by accident. 

Follow your path.  Use your path.

I’m cheering for you.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1. How can you cultivate a mindset of gratitude and reflection beyond just birthdays, incorporating it into your daily life?

2. How does your individual life path and your experiences uniquely equip you to support and empathize with others on their journeys?

Psalm 90:12 is a reminder to treasure each moment, for time is fleeting.  In seeking God’s wisdom, you will gain a deeper understanding of life’s purpose and meaning.

Embrace each day with gratitude, recognizing the divine opportunities it presents.  Just as wisdom may cause you to carefully prepare for your retirement by planning and saving, you should not forget to cherish and count your days, recognizing each as a precious gift from above.

By living with intentionality, seeking God’s guidance in every step, you will cultivate a heart of wisdom that enriches your journey.

Be mindful of the godly moments happening in front of you each day, savoring them as reflections of His grace.

As you continue your journey forward, may you seek not only success but also significance, knowing that true wisdom lies in aligning your life with God’s purposes.

With each passing day, may you grow in wisdom and stature, living a life that honors Him.

Be Blessed!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How can you cultivate a mindset of gratitude and mindfulness to recognize the divine opportunities presented in each day, as suggested in Psalm 90:12?

2. In what ways can seeking God’s wisdom and guidance lead to a deeper understanding of life’s purpose and meaning?

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Focus On What Is In Front Of You

Fall is harvest time in Iowa.  The fields are being cleared and the deer are out having a buffet running from field to field.  It’s a wonderful time of year, but potentially dangerous.

It is very important to stay focused on the road immediately ahead of you and not be distracted by looking ahead to the bright lights of where you are going because a deer could be right in front of you at any time.

The same can be true of you as you go about your day.  You can be so anxious to get something accomplished or reach the end point of a project that you could miss something right in front of me.

A conversation with someone in need of
encouragement, a chance to help a friend, an opportunity that only you can see. 

Don’t be so focused on what is in the distance that you miss what may be right in front of you.  It is what is the most important.

I’m cheering for you.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How do you balance your ambition to achieve future goals with the necessity of staying present and attentive to the needs and opportunities around you?

2.  In what ways can you cultivate a mindset of mindfulness and awareness to ensure that you don’t overlook the valuable moments and connections happening right in front of you each day?

Let the words of Matthew 6:34 guide and sustain you today.  Remember to keep your focus firmly rooted in the present moment. 

It’s easy to become overwhelmed by the uncertainties of tomorrow, but Jesus reminds us that each day carries its own burdens. Instead of fretting about what lies ahead, trust in God’s provision and guidance for today.

Embrace each moment as an opportunity to grow closer to Him and to serve others with love and compassion.  

By keeping your eyes fixed on the present, you’ll discover the beauty and blessings that surround you each day.

So, let go of worry and anxiety about the future, and entrust your tomorrows into God’s hands.  

As you walk in faith, remember that He is with you every step of the way, guiding and sustaining you through whatever challenges may come your way.

Stay focused on the Christian walk before you, knowing that God’s grace is always sufficient for today.

Be Blessed!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1. How am I actively trusting God’s provision and guidance for today, rather than worrying about what tomorrow may bring?

2. What steps can I take right now to embrace each moment as an opportunity to grow closer to God and serve others with love and compassion?

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Press On…Every Moment

“We stay in the moment, because our future is shaped by the present.”  

Like him or dislike him, but Deion “Coach Prime” Sanders is engaging and has some wisdom.  I was recently watching a documentary and he dropped this truth as if he was reading from my playbook.  

Whether you are speaking as a coach, an athlete, a father, mother, or any line of work, the present moment is the most important one that you have.  

Living in the past is dangerous, and looking too much into the future without a plan is not wise.  One of the surest ways to make a foundation for your future is to take care of the here and now.  The moment where your feet are. 

It seems so simple, yet is one of the most difficult things to do.  Don’t fall into the trap of wanting to get to your future without understanding that you need to put the daily work in.  

Spend your days knowing that as you control and stack your present moments on top of each other you are actually creating your future, and done correctly and consistently it will be a bright future.  

I’m cheering for you.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue 

1.  How can focusing on the present moment contribute to shaping a successful future, according to the wisdom shared by “Coach Prime”?

2.  What are the potential pitfalls of dwelling too much on the past or fixating solely on the future without attending to the present, as emphasized in the writing?

Press On

Philippians 3:14 ESV‬

Thinking on this passage from Phillipians is a natural continuation from verse 13, “Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it on my own.  But one thing I do:  forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead,”…

“I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.

You can find inspiration to focus on the present moment, recognizing that each step taken today shapes the path toward your future, a future shaped by a loving God.

Dwelling too much on past mistakes or constantly fixating on distant goals can hinder your progress. 

Instead, embracing the present moment with diligence and purpose, anchored in faith, will allow you to build a strong foundation for the future. 

By pressing on with determination, trusting in God’s guidance, and being a  faithful steward of each moment, you can find assurance that your efforts will lead to a fulfilling and purposeful journey toward the ultimate prize of a heavenly calling and eternal life with Jesus.

Press On!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How does “forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead” help you approach and navigate life’s challenges and pursue spiritual growth?

2.  What strategies can you employ to maintain a forward-focused mindset and press on toward the goal of your heavenly calling, despite setbacks and distractions?

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Saturday

Wondering, Wandering.
Not knowing.
Sadness.
Is hope gone?
How do you make it through?
Be with people who love and support you.
Grieve and mourn as you must.
We know, what they couldn’t have known.
Hope will be restored.
Life will be made new.
Sunday is Coming!

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Embrace Life’s Moments

Life’s beauty lies not in the distant milestones we hope to reach, but in the precious moments we experience along the way.

Each day brings a variety of emotions, encounters, and opportunities waiting to be seized.

Embrace the sunrise’s warmth, savor conversations with loved ones, and relish the small victories.  It is in these moments that life truly thrives.

Don’t rush through life chasing milestones; instead, relish every instant.  Find joy in the laughter, solace in the quiet, and purpose in the present.

When you appreciate each moment, you’ll discover that life itself is the most remarkable milestone you’ll ever achieve.

I’m cheering for you.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How can we shift our perspective to appreciate the beauty of life’s journey rather than solely focusing on distant milestones?

2.  What are some practical ways to embrace and cherish the small moments and experiences that enrich our lives every day?

Pursuing Moments With God

In the hustle and bustle of your daily life, it’s easy to get caught up in chasing after milestones and forgetting to appreciate the simple moments that make life truly meaningful. 

But in the book of Philippians, you find a timeless reminder to embrace every moment with God, finding joy in His presence and guidance.

Philippians 4:4 encourages you with these powerful words: “Rejoice in the Lord always.  I will say it again: Rejoice!”

This verse serves as a beacon of light, guiding you to find joy not just in the grand achievements or distant dreams, but in the everyday moments spent in communion with God.

When you pause to rejoice in the Lord, you shift your focus from the worries of tomorrow to the blessings of today. 

You recognize that each moment is an opportunity to experience God’s love, grace, and faithfulness in your life.

Later, in Philippians 4:6-7, you are reminded of the peace that surpasses all understanding when we turn to God in prayer:  “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

As you embrace each moment with God through prayer, gratitude, and rejoicing, we invite His presence to fill your heart with peace and contentment, regardless of your circumstances.

Heed the wisdom found in Philippians and make a conscious effort to rejoice in the Lord always, finding joy in His presence moment by moment.

Cherish the precious gift of each day, knowing that every moment spent with God is a milestone worth celebrating.

Be Blessed!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How often do you pause in your daily routine to intentionally rejoice in the Lord and express gratitude for His presence in your life?

Consider incorporating moments of thanksgiving and praise into your day to cultivate a deeper sense of joy and connection with God.

2.  Reflect on your approach to prayer and petitioning God with your concerns. Are you allowing worries about the future to overshadow the peace that comes from trusting in His provision?

Challenge yourself to present your requests to God with a heart of gratitude and faith, trusting in His wisdom and sovereignty to guide you through each moment.

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The Pursuit of Moments

Section Three of The Pursuit!

Life is an interesting journey woven with fleeting moments, waiting to be pursued.  Each day presents a canvas of opportunities, a delicate dance between spontaneity and purposeful intention.

Whether in the quiet embrace of dawn or the vibrant chaos of city life, these moments beckon us to connect, learn, and continue to strive to be better.

The pursuit of moments transcends the “big things” in life; it resides in the simplicity of shared laughter, unexpected encounters, and quiet reflections.  It’s about savoring the richness of experiences that mold our identity.

Let’s chase sunsets, dance in the rain, and immerse ourselves in conversations that nourish our souls.

In this pursuit, we discover that life’s true beauty lies not just in destinations but in the journey, where every passing second unfolds an endless array of possibilities.

However, as your every day moments present themselves in front of you, don’t forget to pursue the moments that are the most important of all. 

The moments spent with a loving heavenly Father that will not only strengthen you in your daily Christian walk, but will also allow you to face the day to day challenges that this world will throw at you.

Moments spent with Christ only strengthen and brighten the daily moments that come your way.

Embrace the art of pursuing all moments, for therein lies the essence of a truly fulfilling life.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  Reflect on the moments that truly shape your identity. Are they found in the grandeur of life’s big events or in the simplicity of shared laughter, unexpected encounters, and quiet reflections?

2.  Consider the impact of moments spent with a loving heavenly Father. How do these moments not only strengthen your daily Christian walk but also equip you to face the challenges thrown by the world?

3.  How can embracing the art of pursuing all moments enhance the essence of a truly fulfilling life?

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Embracing The Conundrum:  Balancing Service and Self-Care

The word of the day is conundrum.  A conundrum is defined as a confusing and difficult problem or question. 

The conundrum is the struggle to make others happy but not forgetting about yourself. 

We talk about, and practice servant leadership, putting others first, and while that is what I believe we are called to do and be, it can lead to the conundrum. 

While you serve others you also need to make sure to make and take time for yourself. 

Here are three ways to help you through the conundrum.

1.  Take Time For Yourself – it’s not selfish, it’s needed.  You can’t be at your best for others if you don’t take time to take care of you.  That care can look different to each person, but find what helps you and do it consistently.

2. Talk Yourself Up – the most important conversation you have each day is with yourself.  You are wired, by human nature, for negativity.  You must eliminate that negative talk and replace it with positivity.  Speak affirmation and value into yourself. 

3.  Believe – believe that taking care of you is as important and meaningful as taking care of others. 

Believe that you are the right person, in the right place, at the right time. 

If you believe in yourself, and what you believe in is real and authentic, you will be better equipped to take care of others. 

When you experience your conundrum remember to take time for yourself, talk yourself up, and believe. 

I’m cheering for you.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1. How can the concept of servant leadership, prioritizing others, sometimes lead to a conundrum in balancing the needs of others with taking care of yourself?

2. In what ways can you practically and effectively address the conundrum mentioned, ensuring you strike a balance between serving others and prioritizing your own well-being?

Mark 1:35 ESV‬‬
[35]  And rising very early in the morning, while it was still dark, he departed and went out to a desolate place, and there he prayed.

In the hustle and noise of our daily lives, amidst the chaos and demands, there exists a transformative refuge waiting to be embraced—a quiet time with God.

Consider the example set by Jesus in Mark 1:35, who, in the early morning darkness, withdrew to a desolate place for prayer.  In those moments of stillness, profound connection and strength were discovered.

Imagine the impact on your day, the clarity in your thoughts, and the resilience in your spirit that can blossom from taking intentional, quiet time with God. 

In the sacred hush, you find not only a reprieve from life’s clamor but a sanctuary for your soul—a space where you can lay down burdens, seek guidance, and feel the gentle reassurance as you sit in God’s presence.

So, amidst the clamor of the world, grant yourself the gift of quiet communion.  It’s not just a pause; it’s a source of renewal.  In those precious moments, discover the wisdom, peace, and strength that await.

Let your quiet time with God become a wellspring of inspiration, guiding you through the challenges and illuminating the path ahead.

Be Blessed!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1. Have you considered the transformative power of embracing a quiet time with God in the midst of life’s hustle and noise?

2. How might intentional moments of stillness and communion with God, inspired by the example in Mark 1:35, bring clarity, resilience, and a renewed sense of purpose to your daily life?

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Easy or Meaningful?

Life presents us with a pivotal question: Would you rather tread the smooth, effortless path or embark on the rugged journey of significance? It’s a quandary echoing through the corridors of our souls, demanding introspection and courage.

But here’s the thing: you, my friend, aren’t destined for the comfort of ease. No, you’re summoned to weave meaning through the intricate threads of your existence, each moment a brushstroke on the canvas of eternity.

So, resist the enticement of simplicity. Embrace the challenges, the uncertainties, the uphill battles. For in those struggles lies the essence of life itself—the raw material from which greatness is sculpted.

And fear not, for amidst the chaos and the trials, there’s a guiding force, a divine hand shaping every twist and turn. Trust in the process, for even in the darkest of nights, there’s a glimmer of purpose, waiting to illuminate your path.

So, choose not the ease of existence, but the richness of a life lived with intention. For therein lies the true blessing—a life infused with meaning, a legacy woven into the fabric of eternity.

“For I, the Lord your God, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, “Fear not, I am the one who helps you.” (Isaiah 41:13)

Be Blessed!

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Trust The Process

Trust the Process.

It’s a popular phrase, sometimes over-used, and oftentimes harder to follow through.

You want instant.  You want it now.  You even want it yesterday sometimes.  You just can’t wait, so you miss out on the growth that can happen in you by giving up too soon.

The process of becoming better requires you to trust that things, all things, are working to help you become better and become more.

When you don’t trust the process and let it play out you settle for better when the best is still out there.

When the time is right for you to step into what is for the best you will be ready. 

Don’t settle for better.  Trust the process at work in your life and get ready for the best, and you are at your best.

I’m cheering for you.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1. How can I cultivate patience and trust in the process, allowing it to unfold without seeking instant results?

2. In what ways can I shift my mindset to embrace the journey, recognizing that the best outcomes often require time and commitment?

Proverbs 3:5-6 ESV‬‬
[5]  Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.
[6] In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.

Consider the depth of this timeless verse, etched on countless coffee cups.  It serves as more than a mere reminder; it beckons us to truly embody its essence.

Trusting in the Lord isn’t a casual acknowledgment but a profound commitment—something that resonates beyond the printed words.

To authentically trust God demands a whole-hearted surrender.  It’s easy to claim trust, yet pausing to ask, “Do I trust with all my heart?” challenges us.

Amidst our well-laid plans, a dash of trust in God might seem like a nice addition.  But remember, it’s not merely about your process; it’s about letting God shape and guide it entirely.

To experience the full extent of God’s work, you must be all in, offering your whole heart. God yearns to complete the process, but your willingness is the key.

Allow Him to effect the necessary changes within you, for only then can the true transformation take root.

God’s capacity to act on your behalf hinges on the changes within you.  Surrender, let Him work, and witness the remarkable unfold.

Place your trust in Him, shifting reliance from self to the divine, and acknowledge His presence in every facet of your life.  This conscious trust sets you on the path ordained for you.

Explore His Word, unraveling the tapestry of His faithfulness in the past.  The word of God is timeless and reinforces the assurance that wholeheartedly trusting Him ensures a secure future.

Be blessed on this profound journey of unwavering trust in God!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1. Have you ever paused to reflect on whether your trust in God is a casual acknowledgment or a profound commitment, trusting with all your heart?

2. In considering your plans and processes, have you embraced the idea that true transformation and fulfillment come when you surrender your whole heart to God, allowing Him to shape and guide the journey?

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Is Safe Best?

The comfort zone is a dangerous place to be.  Too many people are afraid to step out of it which keeps them from ever reaching their true potential. 

If a ship stayed tied up in the harbor it would never experience the beauty of the open seas. 

Yes, there is a chance of stormy seas as well but the ship cannot experience the beauty without risking being in some uncomfortable waters as well.

The same is true of you.  As much as you may like your comfort zone your true and full potential will never be realized unless you leave it. 

You are meant for more.  More growth, more learning and more awe inspiring moments. 

If you leave your comfort zone you will experience more and you will also be better for those that you lead and serve.

Head out into your adventure.  Beauty awaits.

I’m cheering for you.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How does staying within the comfort zone limit individuals from realizing their true potential, according to the analogy of a ship in the harbor?

2.  In what ways does leaving the comfort zone lead to personal growth and benefit both individuals and those they lead or serve, as suggested in the writing?

Matthew 4:19-20 ESV‬‬
[19] And he said to them, “Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men.”
[20] Immediately they left their nets and followed him.

‭‭Luke 5:27-28 ESV‬‬
[27]  After this he went out and saw a tax collector named Levi, sitting at the tax booth. And he said to him, “Follow me.”
[28] And leaving everything, he rose and followed him.

One of the biggest quests of the last few years is seeing how many followers you can get on social media. 

Unfortunately, too many people are basing their self-worth on the number and engagement they get from those followers. 

I heard of one young man who ate peanut butter on his social media account and has amassed over 100,000 followers. 

I’m not against having fun, but I’ve lived over 60 years now and I’ve spent far too many hours wasted following, and even pursuing, the wrong things, or things that don’t really matter. 

When Jesus said, “Follow Me”, his to be disciples did it when?  They did it immediately.
They didn’t hesitate.  When someone tried, or wanted to do it a little later to bury his father, Jesus even told him to let someone else do it. 

Scholars debate if this was a literal statement, but the message is clear.  God wants, even demands, that we “deny ourself, take up our cross daily, and follow him.” (Luke 9:23). 

Let’s end with this thought from the above passage in Luke.  Those commands from Jesus are one time, immediate commands.

1.  Deny yourself – don’t return to your old self. 
2.  Take up your cross – lay down your rights.
3.  Daily – decide every day to not back away from His call.
4.  Follow him – do it once. Do it forever.

Take an honest look at what yourself today.  Are you playing it safe in your commitment to following Jesus?  Your continuous spiritual growth may depend on your answer. 

Be Blessed!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How has the culture of seeking social media followers impacted individuals’ perceptions of self-worth, and what potential dangers lie in basing one’s value on online popularity?

2.  Reflecting on the immediate response of Jesus’ disciples to “Follow Me,” how can the concept of immediate and unwavering commitment apply to our daily lives, especially in the context of self-denial and taking up one’s cross?

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Born For More

Are you settling for whatever comes your way?

Are you letting what happens to you dictate your attitude and the direction of your life?

Don’t settle!  You were born for more.  If you have a genuine desire to do something that could positively impact others then find a way to do it.

Commit to pursuing your passion and fully using the talents and gifts that you have been given.

You may need to start small, but start.  Don’t worry about having everything figured out.  It will work itself out.

The world needs more dreamers and doers.

Think you have more to give? 
Me too.

Let’s go.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  What is my genuine desire or passion that could positively impact others, and how can I start pursuing it, even if it’s in a small way?

2.  Am I allowing external circumstances to dictate my attitude and the direction of my life, or am I committed to using my talents and gifts to make a positive difference, regardless of challenges?

Jeremiah 1:5 ESV‬‬

[5]  “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you; I appointed you a prophet to the nations.”

Have you taken a moment to ponder the profound notion that God intimately knew you before your very existence?  Consider how this awareness can transform your outlook on life, infusing it with purpose and boundless potential.

Imagine God, the ultimate Creator, fashioning you not merely for a mundane 9-5 existence but gifting you with unique talents and abilities.  

Envision yourself consecrated, set apart for a purpose beyond the ordinary, destined to use these gifts to radiate His glory.

Discovering God’s purpose for your life might not unfold as explicitly as it did for Jeremiah, but rest assured that as you cultivate and employ your talents in service to others, you bring honor to Him.

Picture yourself as an integral character in God’s grand narrative.  Born for a specific role, you’re called to share and manifest His love in the world around you—your world, distinct and unparalleled.  You hold a singular opportunity to make a difference.

Embrace faithfulness in every task, regardless of its difficulty, danger, or daunting nature.  You were uniquely born for these moments, and God, in His guiding grace, will lead you through, ensuring you fulfill your purpose with resilience and strength. 

Be Blessed!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  Have you ever reflected on the idea that God knew you before you were born, and how does this awareness impact your perspective on your life’s purpose and potential?

2.  In what ways can you actively use your talents and gifts to bring honor to God, recognizing that you play a unique part in His story within the specific context of your life, work, and relationships?

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The Greatest Project

The responsibilities of daily life are many.  Family, work, and friends just to name a few.  You can get to working on so many things, for so many people that you may neglect one of the most important projects of all.  Yourself. 

The decisions you have to make each day are very important but they become meaningless if you accomplish them by constantly sacrificing your own well being and don’t take time for your own personal and professional growth. 

Take time for you. Not selfish, lazy time. Time to read, think , listen to a podcast, discover a new hobby to help you relax and grow. 

Intentional personal growth.

We all need it.  You do too. It will lead to a better you and a better leader of people and those other responsibilities and demands that fill up your day.  

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1. How can you prioritize self-care and intentional personal growth amidst the numerous responsibilities of daily life, ensuring a balance between meeting external demands and investing in your own well-being?

2. Reflect on a specific instance where you sacrificed your personal growth for external responsibilities. What steps can you take to incorporate intentional personal growth into your routine, ensuring a more balanced and fulfilling life?

In the relentless pursuit of personal growth, as you honor God through your commitment to excellence, remember: it’s crucial, yet not the ultimate goal.

In this verse and passage, Jesus emphasizes that worldly success, even when achieved with excellence, doesn’t guarantee the ultimate victory.

Following Christ is about embracing His teachings, mirroring His life, and acknowledging His sacrifice.

Don’t view following Jesus as a path to worldly acclaim; it’s a commitment to a higher purpose.

Take moments for self-improvement, but let those moments intertwine with God’s guidance.

Your personal growth finds true strength when grounded in Christ, making the greatest project even grander.

Be Blessed!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1. Have you struck a balance between personal growth and aligning your pursuits with Christ’s teachings, life, and sacrifice?

2. How can you ensure that your pursuit of excellence is not solely driven by worldly success, but also reflects a deeper commitment to following Jesus?

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Acknowledge It All

Personal growth necessitates absolute honesty with oneself. 

It involves recognizing and owning up to your mistakes, understanding when you fall short of a familiar moment – perhaps one you’ve navigated successfully before but faltered this time.

It’s crucial to discern whether you missed the opportunity or consciously chose not to embrace it, as there lies a significant distinction.

To evolve and improve, you must confront and acknowledge your errors and missed opportunities, looking honestly and deep within yourself for self-reflection and growth.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  Have you recently faced a situation where you had the chance to meet a familiar moment but chose not to step into it?  What was the reasoning behind your decision, and how might it impact your personal growth?

2.  Reflect on a recent mistake or missed opportunity in your life. How did you handle it? Did you acknowledge it, own up to it, and use it as a catalyst for personal growth, or did you avoid facing it?  Consider the lessons learned and how you can apply them to pursue continuous improvement.

Psalm 32:4-6 ESV‬‬

[4] For day and night your hand was heavy upon me; my strength was dried up as by the heat of summer. 

[5] I acknowledged my sin to you, and I did not cover my iniquity; I said, “I will confess my transgressions to the Lord,” and you forgave the iniquity of my sin. 

[6] Therefore let everyone who is godly offer prayer to you at a time when you may be found; surely in the rush of great waters, they shall not reach him.

Have you ever felt like David did?  Have you felt the weight of your sin?  I mean honestly really felt the weight of it on your heart?  

Sin will just hang there and get heavier and heavier until you do acknowledge it and honestly deal with it.  

You acknowledge it, now what can you do?  I would encourage you to honestly take some time to ponder and pursue these questions.  

1.  Who do I need to talk to about it?

2.  What am I willing to do to be held accountable so it won’t happen again?

3.  How will I be better because of it?

4.  What is the biggest lesson I can share with others because of it? 

Your road to spiritual growth will not always be easy.  It wasn’t for David, and many others in the Bible.  But take heart, the same God that David called on is the same God that you can call on too.  

Be Blessed!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue 

1.  What concrete steps am I prepared to take to ensure accountability and prevent a recurrence of my mistakes?

2.  How can I use the lessons learned from my journey to help others navigate similar challenges and find strength in their faith?

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Learn – Think – Grow

There is a lot to do each day. 
Schedules, planned tasks, unplanned tasks, job, family, and hobbies.  What else is added to your list?

With all that is going on, are you still taking some time to work on yourself?  Are you getting better everyday?

Today, let me offer a simple three step plan to help you do that.  Just three steps to being a little bit better than yesterday.

1.  Learn something new today.
     a.  Listen, read, write.  To learn something you’re going to have to do something.

2.  Reflect on what you learn.
     a.  Spend some time alone thinking.  What do I need to be better at?  Will I commit to making it happen? 

3.  Apply your learning as soon as possible. 
     a.  How can I apply what I have learned into my life?  What will this action step look like? 

Learn – Reflect – Apply
to
Learn – Think – Grow.

Three simple steps that often become derailed due to decisions not to, or by the things of life mentioned earlier.

Whatever the case for you, learn, reflect on, and apply at least one new thing today.  Then stack those days on top of each other and be on your way to becoming a better you.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1. In the midst of your busy schedule, what is one small thing you can commit to learning today that will contribute to your personal growth?

2. How can you ensure that the new knowledge you acquire today becomes a catalyst for positive change in your life?

Proverbs‬ ‭2:1‭-‬5‬ ‭ESV‬‬


[1]  My son, if you receive my words and treasure up my commandments with you,
[2] making your ear attentive to wisdom and inclining your heart to understanding;
[3] yes, if you call out for insight and raise your voice for understanding,
[4] if you seek it like silver and search for it as for hidden treasures,
[5] then you will understand the fear of the Lord and find the knowledge of God.
[6] For the Lord gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding;

Learn – Reflect – Apply
to
Learn – Think – Grow
is like an old If-Then statement.

Way back I learned some very simple computer coding techniques that were based on If-Then statements. 

If you want the computer program to do something, or take you somewhere else Then you told it to do something very specific only if the first statement is true. 

Working backwards was often necessary.  You would figure out what you wanted to accomplish and then work on how to get there.

Let’s work backwards in this passage from Proverbs and see what it means to help with spiritual growth.

If you want to experience God’s wisdom you need knowledge and understanding.  How do you get that?  Look at the answer in the first five verses. 

If you receive his words, pay attention, have your heart open to his commands, call out to him, and seek it like a hidden treasure, Then you will understand and find wisdom and knowledge that will come only from God.

Wisdom and knowledge more useful, insightful, and powerful than any man made computer coding can give you. 

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How do you see the correlation between your own process of learning, reflecting, and applying in spiritual growth resembling the logical structure of an If-Then statement in computer coding?

2.  If your pursuit of wisdom involves actions like receiving, paying attention, opening your heart, calling out, and seeking, which of these can you personally apply to guide you deeper in your journey of spiritual growth?

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Your Canvas Awaits!

Happy Monday! 🌟

It’s the dawn of a new week, filled with opportunities waiting to be seized.  Embrace the wins that lie ahead, learn from the losses, and treasure the good times.

Remember, challenges are stepping stones to growth, so face them with gratitude and resilience.  Each obstacle is a chance to become stronger, wiser, and more determined.

This week is your canvas; paint it with determination, positivity, and unwavering focus on your goals.

By week’s end, you’ll stand tall, knowing you’ve grown because of it all.  Embrace the journey, be in your moments, for the pursuit of greatness starts today.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How can challenges be viewed as stepping stones in your personal growth, and what mindset is necessary to face them with gratitude and resilience?

2.  In what ways can you actively paint your week with determination, positivity, and unwavering focus on your goals, turning each obstacle into an opportunity for growth?

“Spiritual Growth in the Canvas of a Week: Embracing Psalm 51:10”

‭‭Psalm‬ ‭51:10‬ ‭ESV‬‬

[10]  Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.

As you step into this new week, let the timeless wisdom of Psalm 51:10 be your prayer.  This week is more than a stretch of days; it’s a canvas for your Christian growth.

In celebrating victories, let gratitude flow, recognizing them as reflections of God’s grace.  

In the face of challenges, view them not just as hurdles but as stepping stones for your spiritual growth.  Each trial is an opportunity to deepen your faith and fortify your resilience.

Seek a pure heart not only in moments of prayer but in every interaction, decision, and response.  Allow God to renew your spirit cultivating a steadfastness grounded in His teachings. 

The canvas of this week is an unfolding masterpiece, painted with the colors of spiritual maturity, humility, and a strengthened connection with God.

By week’s end, stand not only taller in what God has blessed you with in your daily life, but more importantly, in the growth of your Christian character. 

May your journey this week be a testimony to the transformative power of God’s love and your commitment to the ongoing journey of spiritual growth. 

Be Blessed!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1. How will you consciously infuse the pursuit of a pure heart and a steadfast spirit into your daily interactions and decisions throughout this week?

2. In your journey this week, how can you transform challenges into stepping stones for your Christian growth, fostering a deeper connection with God?

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The Pursuit of Growth

I hope you found value and growth through the posts about pursuing change.   Speaking of growth, next, we’ll delve into the pursuit of personal and spiritual growth—a journey essential for a fulfilling and complete life.

Personal growth is the process of developing new skills, attitudes, actions, or reactions that can have a positive impact on you and increase your overall well-being.

Growth will not happen without intentionality.  You want the benefits of well-being, but not the work or focus it takes to attain them.

The process takes time, and time is something you often want to speed up and rush through, but the old adage “good things take time” should never be forgotten. 

Spiritual growth also involves learning and is the act of being intentional about the process of becoming more Christ-like each and every day. 

As you continue to grow spiritually, you begin to live more for God and less for yourself.  God has the power to change your life in an instant, but after that change, you cannot help but be filled with excitement as you pursue even more growth day by day.

You are never through becoming more personally or spiritually.  The process is always there, always waiting, and always willing to help you pursue the growth that you need to live more fully.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1. What benefits of well-being do you desire, and are you willing to invest the necessary work and focus to attain them?

2. In the pursuit of spiritual growth, how intentional are you about becoming more Christ-like each day, and what steps can you take to enhance this transformative process?

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Words That Change You

It was a hot July day in 1981 as I stood in the doorway watching the Tiger basketball camp in the Griswold, IA gym. I had gone to talk to my girlfriend, now my wife of 40 years, as she worked at the school for her summer job.

I had graduated from Griswold High School in 1980, went onto Simpson College to study music performance and education but had dropped out six weeks into the Fall semester.  (Another story for another day).

From October to this hot day in July I had worked at two different jobs and really had no plan or direction for my future.  My hair sat on my shoulders and who knows how long it had been since I had shaved, although you probably couldn’t call what I had a real beard.

As I stood in the doorway my high school basketball coach, Kent Gade, walked up to me, poked his finger from his 6-5 inch frame and said “Why don’t you do something with your life?”.  He turned and walked away.

Those words, that one sided interaction,  changed the trajectory of my life. Within a couple of weeks I had shaved, gotten my haircut and enrolled in Iowa Western Community College. 

The man I still call “Coach” spoke life back into me with an eight word phrase but those eight words were powerful. 

Coach Gade cared enough to confront me and it woke me up. He took a risk but he cared enough to take that risk because he knew I needed to hear it.  Caring overrides risk. 

As a leader do you care enough to take the risk to confront someone to make a change they need to make?

Words are powerful. Words used correctly and at the right time can change a life. I know because eight words changed mine.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  Who spoke those words to you that had an impact on your life? 
      a.  What could you do to contact them and let them know?
2.  Is there someone who you feel may need you to speak some life into them?

Matthew 7:24-27

The Wise and Foolish Builders

24  “Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock. 

25  And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house, but it did not fall, because it had been founded on the rock. 

26  And everyone who hears these words of mine and does not do them will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand. 

27  And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell, and great was the fall of it.”

Every word that Jesus spoke is full of life, encouragement and worth following.  This passage is the wrap up for his Sermon on the Mount, and it’s like when the pastor says “in conclusion” on Sunday.  

For whatever reason, you sit up and pay attention a little more, because the closing is bringing it all home and typically contains some really wise words, and of course, Jesus doesn’t disappoint.  

Every good sermon has three points.  This isn’t a sermon, so I’ll just give two.   

1.  “These words of mine” in verse 24.  There have always been, and will be, people that speak things that are not true, not biblical, or worthy of being followed.  Listenting to, and following the words of Jesus are the only words worth listening to.  

2.  There is a difference between “hearing” his words, and “living” his words.  To truly live out the words and teachings of Jesus, we need to live out all of his words.  We can’t build our life (house) on the rock if we don’t build it on all of his words. 

His words are “tried and true”, a “shield”, “living”, “powerful”, “sharper than any two-edged sword”.  Those are words worth pursuing, and words that will truly change you. 

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How can  you discern between words that are true, biblical, and worthy of following, and those that are not?  In what ways can one ensure they are primarily listening to and following the words of Jesus?

2.  Reflecting on the distinction between “hearing” and “living” the words of Jesus, what practical steps can one take to integrate all of his teachings into your daily life?  How does the concept of building one’s life on the rock of Jesus’ words require a comprehensive embrace of all his teachings?

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What You Leave Behind

We all love a good quote.  A quote can make us think more deeply, stir our souls and even bring about change in our lives.

While they can have some lasting impact we should not be about trying to come up with the next catchy quote or phrase to impact people.

The impact that we ultimately have on people is found, and grounded, in how our lives intersect and impact those we lead and live with, our daily contacts, and even those we may just have a brief encounter with.

If you truly want to leave your legacy be mindful of each daily interaction. 

Be kind.
Be compassionate.
Be full of grace.
Be loving.
Be positive.

If you are going to leave anything behind weave these into people’s lives.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How can you ensure that your daily interactions are purposeful and contribute positively to the lives of those around you, leaving a lasting impact beyond catchy quotes?

2.  In what ways can practicing kindness, compassion, grace, love, and positivity in your everyday interactions become the foundation for a meaningful and lasting legacy?

Living a Legacy:
A Daily Call to Christian Virtues

‭‭1 Timothy‬ ‭4:12‬ ‭ESV‬‬

[12] Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity.

In our pursuit of a meaningful and impactful life, draw inspiration from 1 Timothy 4:12, “Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity.”

Speech:
Choose words that uplift, encourage, and inspire.  Let your speech be a reflection of the kindness that resides in your heart, reminding others of the power of positive communication.

Conduct:
Live by example. Demonstrate integrity, humility, and honesty in all your actions. Your conduct speaks volumes, leaving a lasting impression on those around you.

Love:
Embrace love as the guiding force in your interactions. Show genuine care and compassion to others, fostering an environment where love becomes a transformative force in people’s lives.

Faith:
Trust in your faith, and let it guide you through challenges. Allow your unwavering faith to be a beacon of hope for others, inspiring them to navigate life’s journey with resilience and trust in God’s plan.

Purity:
Cultivate a pure heart and mind. Seek purity in your thoughts, intentions, and actions. Strive for a life free from negativity, focusing on goodness and righteousness.

In every encounter, remember that age is not a barrier to leaving a positive impact, young or old (seasoned). 

I remember thinking a lot about this verse when I was in my 30’s.  Now, in my 60’s, I look back, and also see the application from both sides. 

There are younger people to learn from about God, and living a Godly life, but there is also great value and lessons from those who have lived life and have more experiences to share as they have pursued living, and walking with God. 

Be intentional in living out your faith through your speech, conduct, love, faith, and purity, regardless of your age.  Each moment is an opportunity to leave a lasting imprint on the hearts of those around you.

Be Blessed!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How can you, regardless of your age, actively apply the principles of 1 Timothy 4:12 to leave a positive impact by choosing words that uplift, living with integrity, embracing love, trusting in faith, and cultivating purity in your daily interactions?

2.  Reflecting on the journey through life, how can the interchange of wisdom and experiences between younger and older individuals contribute to a richer understanding of living a Godly life, emphasizing the timeless importance of setting an example in speech, conduct, love, faith, and purity?

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Life Changes.  Jesus Does Not.

Today, I invite you to think about and embrace the wisdom of Heraclitus:  

“No man steps in a river twice.” 

Life’s essence lies in perpetual change, an ever-flowing river of experiences.  Each moment is unique, never to be repeated. 

Like a river, life may have twists, turns, and unexpected currents.  Instead of resisting, learn to flow with the stream of change. 

Embracing new challenges and opportunities is the key to growth.  Just as a river shapes its path, let life shape you.  

Every encounter, every obstacle, is a chance to evolve.  Don’t cling to the past; let it be the foundation for a stronger future. 

As you navigate the river of life, remember that every step forward is a step into uncharted waters.  

Embrace change, adapt, and let the current carry you towards new horizons.  Life’s beauty lies in its ever-changing nature; find strength in the flow.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  Reflect on the idea that “No man steps in a river twice.” How does this perspective on life as an ever-flowing river influence the way we approach and appreciate each moment?

2.  In what ways can embracing change and adapting to life’s twists and turns lead to personal growth and the creation of a stronger foundation for the future?

“Steadfast Amidst Change: Finding Comfort in the Unchanging Nature of Jesus”

‭‭Hebrews‬ ‭13:8‬ ‭ESV‬‬
[8] Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.

Even in the midst of life’s uncertainties and  challenges find comfort in the unchanging nature of Jesus.  A rock on which you can stand.

When work issues create chaos, remember that the same Jesus who calmed the sea can bring tranquility to your life.

If a challenging diagnosis shakes you, know that the Jesus who healed the sick is there to provide comfort and walk through it with you.

Committing your life to Him ensures a steadfast presence; Jesus remains unchanged and will never leave or turn away.

He is the consistent God—unchanged yesterday, today, and tomorrow.

Life changes.  Jesus does not. 

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  In the face of life’s unpredictable changes, how does the belief in Jesus as a constant source of comfort impact your perspective on challenges and chaos?

2.  What do you need to lay at his feet and let him help you with today?

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Adjust and Trust

Things change don’t they?  

Sometimes you can see change coming and sometimes you can’t.

Both can be tricky and difficult, but either way you have to adjust and get moving again. 

The key is YOU.  

YOU have to make some adjustments. 

Some adjustments may have been needed to be done, and some may be a bit more difficult to do, but either way to get moving in a positive direction again you will likely need to make adjustments.

Adjust your sails. Get the wind behind you again and make progress towards your goal and your destination.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue 

1. Reflecting on personal experiences, what are some examples of adjustments that were relatively easy to make, and how did they contribute to positive progress?

2. How does the idea of “adjusting your sails” align with the concept of resilience, and what role does resilience play in facing and overcoming changes?

Matthew‬ ‭8:25‭-‬27‬ ‭ESV‬‬

[25] And they went and woke him, saying, “Save us, Lord; we are perishing.” 

[26] And he said to them, “Why are you afraid, O you of little faith?” Then he rose and rebuked the winds and the sea, and there was a great calm. 

[27] And the men marveled, saying, “What sort of man is this, that even winds and sea obey him?”

Some of these disciples were experienced fishermen.  They had surely experienced waves before, but these must have been different.  

They had seen him perform miracles on people’s physical bodies, cast out demons, yet they still doubted that they would be alright. 

In the fall of 2004 my mom became ill with a mysterious illness.  We never knew what it was, but she was gone in two weeks.  The last week was in a medically induced coma and on a respirator.  

As the family stood in her room moments before they put her on the respirator, and we were dismissed back to the waiting room she said, “we’ll just have to trust Jesus”. 

Mom was in the middle of the storm.  A storm like she had never experienced and she trusted Jesus in the middle of it.  

What did Jesus do when the disciples woke him up?  He asked why they were afraid and lacked faith.  He’s got this.  

Jesus’ primary concern for those that follow Him is to trust Him.  Not just when you witness and experience the blessings, but also in the middle of the storm.  Even a storm like you’ve never experienced before.  

It may require a change of how much we really trust Jesus, but let’s pursue the trust we can rest in when the biggest storms come.  

Be Blessed! 

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How does the disciples’ reaction to the storm, despite witnessing miracles, reflect a common struggle in trusting God in difficult circumstances?

2.  In the face of a personal storm, how did the narrator’s mother’s response of trusting Jesus challenge the conventional understanding of faith, and what can we learn from her example?

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Your Personal Wins

What is it that you want to accomplish?

Is there something that you want to change?

Are you willing to put in the work to make what you want happen?

Every big change, every goal that you reach starts with small victories stacked on top of each other.

Are you willing to commit 10-15 minutes a day working on what you are passionate about becoming or doing?

Maybe it starts with doing something 2-3 times this week, or committing to not missing two days in a row.

Maybe you need to adjust what you are doing to continue to get some personal wins. The most important thing to do is to get up and start moving toward the goal.

Here is a way I have adjusted my attempt at getting some personal wins in the Iowa winter. I used to have no problem getting over 10,000 steps per day as an Athletic Director, no matter what season it was. My new job, which I work remotely from home most days, makes it a bit more difficult.

Because of that, for the next couple of months I changed my goal and cut my daily goal in half, and am after 5,000 steps a day, most of those coming on our treadmill.

It seems like a drastic cut, but I would rather get some personal daily wins and change the goal, than keep the same goal I have in warmer weather and continually come up short.

One of my big goals this year is to participate in my first ever 5K. I am going to try and stack PW on top of PW, even if the steps are a little less. The goal is daily personal wins right now.

Whatever it is you want to do commit and start getting some personal wins, make the changes you may need to get them, and then stay at it, pursuing those personal wins that can lead to real, and positive, changes for you.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1. What adjustments can you make to your goals to ensure you experience daily personal wins, considering your current circumstances?

2. Are you willing to adapt your goals to better align with your present situation, even if it means taking smaller steps towards your larger objectives?

How you live your life serves as a testimony to others. Some may deliver a sermon with their words, but we all deliver one with how we live our life.

In this passage Paul is urging the Christians at the church in Thessolinica to live their life in such a way that pleases God, as well as displays their godly character.

In the beginning of Chapter 4 he tells us to “abstain from sexual immorality”, and then speaks to how we can show brotherly love.

He instructs the people to lead a peaceful life, mind their own business, and to be industriousness in how they work. In other words, don’t expect others to provide for them.

So then, let’s get personal. Is there something in that list in Chapter 4 that you may need to be better at?

Something you could use some daily personal wins with? Don’t try to do any of it on your own. You can’t do it on your own.

Ask God for the strength, commitment, and resolve to change what needs changed. He promised he will send a helper in the Holy Spirit to help you if you just ask (John 14:26).

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1. Reflecting on Chapter 4, are there specific aspects such as abstaining from certain behaviors or practicing brotherly love that you feel you could improve on for your personal growth?

2. In your pursuit of positive change, have you considered seeking guidance and strength from a source beyond yourself, such as asking for help from a higher power as mentioned in John 14:26?

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Get Up And Change It

Do you remember the “old days” when you had to get up and physically change the channel on the TV that got three channels, plus public television?

If you were a kid in the house, you were the remote. You can now use your smart phone, or even tell Alexa to run the TV.

The TV viewing experience has changed a lot in the last 50-60 years, but changing the course of your life has not.

Don’t like where you’re at, what you’re doing, or how you’re doing it?

It’s really just like the old days. Get up and change it. Nothing will change unless you get up and do it.

There isn’t an app or remote to make change easy. The change you want is up to you and what you choose to do to make it happen.

Make the effort to change what you want to change. It’s the only way.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1. Are there things you need to change in your life?
2. What steps, even though they may be difficult, do you need to start taking to make?

James‬ ‭4:9‬ ‭ESV‬‬
“Be wretched and mourn and weep. Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom.”

At first glance it looks like James is telling you to live a lifestyle of despair and sadness, but that is not the case.

He is referring to what your response should be to repenting of how you may have been living for a period of time.

Have you ever known and realized you were wasting time doing things that didn’t really matter?

How about things that were not good for you and kept you from being all that God has in store for you?

When you realize, and then admit, that you have wasted so much time, energy, and effort pursuing things that were worthless it should cause you to mourn as you think about the things you missed when you turned your back on God.

God has not changed. He still has plans for you. He always has. He never gives up on you. It would be a different feeling if it was past tense (had) instead of a present tense (has).


Changing your pursuit back to the things that truly matter will bring you back to living the life God has intended you to. Abundantly (John 10:10) and victorious (1 Corinthians 15:57).

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1. How does the concept of mourning over wasted time and turning back to God resonate with your own life experiences?
2. Reflect on a specific moment when you realized the value of redirecting your efforts toward meaningful pursuits and how it impacted your overall well-being.

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Change Is Uncomfortable, But Necessary!

Change is hard. Some days it starts first thing in the morning as you try to get out of bed on a cold winter morning, especially this January in Iowa. 🥶

Deb used to live in an old farmhouse. She said it was so comfortable under the warmth of the blankets. She knew that the moment she get out from under them it was going to be a shock to her system and was going to be uncomfortable for awhile.

But what eventually happens when you get out from under the comfort of the blankets like Deb did?

You get used to being up, your body forgets about being tucked under the comfort of the blankets (hopefully), and you move on with your day.

The moment you accept the fact that change needs to happen, is going to happen, and that being uncomfortable for awhile is part of the process, the sooner you can move on with whatever changes may need to happen.

To grow, to be better today than you were yesterday, you need to accept the comfort in being uncomfortable. If you are uncomfortable you have an opportunity to be better.

Embrace being uncomfortable. It’s the only way to truly experience the changes that you need and desire.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1. Is there a difficult change that needs to happen in your life so you can grow and move forward?


2. What steps can you take today to begin pursuing the change(s) you need to make?

‭‭Matthew‬ ‭18:3‬ ‭ESV‬‬
…“Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.”

You want and pursue many different things in your lifetime. Don’t get me wrong. They aren’t all bad and many times have positive benefits if your atittude, and heart, are in the right place.

Before Jesus quoted this scripture the disciples were asking who was the greatest among them. It’s nice to feel needed, successful, and good at your job, or other hobbies that you have, but that is not the most important things for you to pursue.

Jesus said that we need to pursue being humble, being teachable like children, and in Mark 9 He says you need to be a “servant of all”.

In a world driven by ambitions and accomplishments, Jesus’ call to embrace childlike humility serves as a timeless and a sometimes counter-cultural message.

Going against what culture may view as “normal” can be uncomfortable, but uncomfortable is necessary for growth, but more importantly, it is what is needed and required by God.

As you navigate the complexities of life, may you heed the words of Matthew 18:3, turning away from some of the self-centered pursuits and embrace the simplicity and purity of a childlike faith.

By prioritizing a humble and teachable heart, you align yourself more and more with what God calls you to be, and that is worth pursuing.

Be Blessed!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1. How can you intentionally cultivate a childlike humility in your daily life, considering the pressures and aspirations that often drive us toward success and recognition?

2. Reflecting on Jesus’ emphasis on being a “servant of all” in Mark 9, how might your interactions and relationships change if you prioritize humility and a willingness to learn, echoing the qualities of a child, in your roles at work, within your family, and in your community?

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The Pursuit Overview

Next week we begin to dive more deeply into the content of “The Pursuit”.

A bi-weekly journey every Monday and Thursday, where I share writings containing leadership insights and personal development wisdom. Dive into the tapestry of these reflections, intricately woven with scriptures that resonate with the essence of the word we are exploring.

While I hope that the leadership and personal development thoughts help you to grow, the beauty of the Word of God is that it speaks to each person differently.

The thoughts that I will be sharing is how I feel it is speaking to me at the moment of my writing, and how it ties into the pursuit of the topic we are exploring.

What really interests me is how the writing my speak to you. I invite you to share any thoughts with me at any time.

In addition, at the end of each writing you will find some questions to ponder and pursue as you continue on your own journey. Feel free to use them as you see fit. My hope and prayer is that we will both grow through this pursuit.

Join me in this multi-dimensional exploration for our growth and enrichment as we pursue the following:

Change – the act or instance of making or becoming different.

Growth – a progression from simpler to more complex forms.

Moments – an appropriate time for doing something; an opportunity.

Purpose – a person’s sense of resolve or determination.

Success – the accomplishment of an aim or purpose.

Excellence – matching your practice with your potential.

Strength – being able to withstand great force or pressure.

Dreams – ambition, aspiration, hope

Thanks for joining me in “The Pursuit.”

If you have thoughts you want to discuss or explore more feel free to reach out and let’s connect.

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1. As you embark on your own journey of pursuit, how might the provided questions at the end of each writing serve as catalysts for personal reflection and growth? What is an intentional way you can use them?

2. In the multi-dimensional exploration of “The Pursuit,” which of the mentioned aspects (Change, Growth, Moments, Purpose, Success, Excellence, Strength, Dreams) resonates with you the most, and why?

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Pursuit Of…More

How many have laid waste to your life when you weren’t aware of what you were losing, how much was wasted in pointless grief, foolish joy, greedy desire, and social amusements—how little of your own was left to you. You will realize you are dying before your time!”
–Seneca

In the pursuit of more, something must become less. I have made the decision that my less right now is social media.

I want to emphasize that my decision to step away from social media is a personal choice aligned with my current pursuits—strengthening my relationship with God, more focus on oneness with Deb, expressing myself through writing, and continuous learning.

I’m not choosing that to draw any attention to myself. It’s not about judgement or bragging; it’s about focusing on what matters most to me. Just like everyone, I’m on my unique journey, making choices that align with my passions.

Psalm 57:1 resonates with me, emphasizing the call to fulfill one’s purpose. This choice is my way of actively participating in that journey, not to boast but happy to clarify when asked.

I know there are some things that I will miss on social media, but I am confident it won’t compare with what I may miss if I don’t, and that excites me.

I urge you to honestly evaluate anything impeding your goals and make decisions in line with your objectives. Identify and consider removing any obstacles preventing you from fulfilling your purpose. The next move is up to you.

Join me in pursuing more.

Questions To Ponder and Pursue

1. What is your chief pursuit right now?

2. Do you need to say “no” to something so you can say “yes” to something more fully?

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Pursuit Of…Oneness

As mentioned in Monday’s post, our primary pursuit is our connection with God, followed closely by nurturing our relationship with our spouse or significant other. 

For the past seven years, I’ve utilized the One Word process each December to guide my journey toward self-improvement in the coming year.  Deb has also chosen a word for herself in previous years.

In the 41st year of our marriage, we’ve decided to embark on the One Word journey together, and “Oneness” will be our shared focus for 2024.  This, however, isn’t just a one-year commitment; it’s an enduring endeavor.

Oneness, defined as the state of being unified or whole, despite being comprised of two or more parts, is a concept often discussed in maintaining a vibrant connection with one’s spouse.

We recognize that even after four decades of marriage, intentional effort is crucial for sustaining growth, unity, and togetherness.

While a chosen word or intentional goal doesn’t guarantee success, it provides a clearer focus on what we aim to achieve and pursue. 

Deb and I eagerly anticipate the pursuit of “Oneness” in 2024 and beyond, one intentional day at a time.

**You can find the one word concept and process in the book “One Word That Will Change Your Life” by Jon Gordon, Dan Britton, and Jimmy Page.**

Questions To Ponder and Pursue

1.  Is there a word you want to pursue in 2024?

2.  Reflecting on the pursuit of “Oneness” mentioned in the writing, what strategies or practices can contribute to the growth, unity, and togetherness in your relationships?

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What We Pursue First

2023. The year passed with various memories for you, hopefully predominantly positive, yet possibly marked by some challenges, some possibly self-inflcted. Often, those challenging single moments, whether self-inflicted or not, have the power to redirect you onto the necessary path.

The term “come to Jesus moment” is frequently used, but a genuine one can lead you to a pivotal decision — whether to continue on the broad road or redirect your steps towards a narrower one.

That narrow road, though sometimes lonely, can lead to a period of significant renewal, redemption, forgiveness, and a refreshed sense of freedom spiritually, mentally, and even physically.

The discovery of a renewed connection with a holy and loving Father leads you on a transformative journey. In moments of prayer, study and reflection, you can find a profound sense of peace and purpose.

Acknowledging and repenting for past transgressions becomes the key to fostering humility, seeking forgiveness, and striving for spiritual growth.

Each day, distancing from old habits strengthens your connection with God. The daily study of scripture provides solace and clarity in navigating your journey of redemption and renewal.

This newfound awareness deepens your commitment to a closer walk with the Lord, fostering gratitude and joy in the face of forgiveness.

Through this spiritual reawakening, a reminder emerges that grace serves as a guiding light, aiding in overcoming shortcomings and encouraging your pursuit of a transformative journey aligned with a divine and higher purpose.

Moment by moment, day by day, pursue God and live in his grace and mercy.

Questions

1. Did you have any “come to Jesus” moments in 2023?
a. Did you act on those moments for good or did you ignore them?

2. Is there anything you need to do, get rid of, or give over to Jesus, that will help you walk that narrow road?
a. Are you seeking the right things?

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Just Fill The Ice Cube Trays

Each Friday, the six former Athletic Directors that work for BOUND do an episode in a professional development series called “Beyond BOUND”. After the person who is leading presents whatever they are presenting on that day we go around the horn with a few comments from everyone. 

This is the episode from today (1-12-24) where I tell a story about filling up some ice cube trays and the lessons we can learn from that. 

Just Fill The Ice Cube Trays
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Welcome To “The Pursuit”

Welcome to a journey of purpose and growth in “The Pursuit” newsletter! Here, we delve into life’s most profound pursuits, commencing with our pursuit of God.

Every Monday and Thursday, join me as we explore leadership insights intertwined with scriptural reflections, fostering thoughts and moments of contemplation.

Throughout this journey, we’ll navigate the multifaceted pursuit of God, embracing and pursuing themes of redemption, renewal, reawakening, dreams, change, growth, moments, purpose, success, and strength.

Each post is a guide for introspection and inspiration, merging timeless wisdom with contemporary leadership principles.

Together, let’s embark on a path that transcends the ordinary – a pursuit that encompasses the essence of our existence.

Join me in discovering the richness of life’s pursuits, finding meaning, and unlocking the keys to leadership that resonate on a spiritual level.

Join me in “The Pursuit”.

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Not If, But When


What’s next?

What are your dreams for the future?

Do you believe your dreams will come true and are going to happen?

Too many people want change but lack the mindset, confidence, and perseverance to see it through.

Discard any negative mindsets that may creep into your head.

Discard the “if”.

If you continually fill your mind with negative thoughts, are pessimistic, and engage in negative behaviors, you can be sure that they will turn into negative self fulfilling prophecies.

Today, believe that what you want will happen when the time is right and when you are ready. Be positive and believe in your dreams and your vision.

Believe that if you have a plan, work the plan, and are patient your best days will happen with a positive and persistent mindset.

Remove the word “if” from the conversation and look forward to the “WHEN”.

I’m Cheering For You.

#leadership #motivation #coaching
#bebetter #beblessed

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Stay In Your Lane

I enjoy walking early in the morning around sunrise.  It is very peaceful, the highway traffic is very light, and I get to see quite a few sunrises. 

I snapped this picture the other morning because it reminded me of something I always try to remind myself to do, and I probably want to tell more people than I do to do the same.  I don’t though because I try to stay in my lane. 

I have learned over the years that if I stay in my lane, and mind my own business my life seems to stay as smooth as it possibly can. 

When I, or others, cross over that double yellow line it’s often like driving into oncoming traffic.  Dangerous and nothing much good is going to happen. 

In fact, if I saw a vehicle coming head on at me in my lane I would likely take a quick turn onto a side street and exit the situation.

When someone gets out of their lane, which is likely every day if you work around others, realize when you need to get yourself out of, or exit the situation. 

It is always a good idea to check yourself too.   Make sure you stay in your lane when you can and should.  Keep your eyes on the road ahead of you because there is enough responsibility with doing that. 

I’m cheering for you.

#leadership #motivation #coaching
#bebetter #beblessed

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When It Seems Like The World Is Against You

I remember having conversations with kids, mine and others, when they would say “nobody likes me, everyone hates me”.
If we’re being honest we can feel that way at times as adults as well. 

I always try to remind people that using the terms “nobody” and “everyone” is painting with a broad brush and not accurate.  

Let’s cut right to it. 

The whole world is not against you.  Sometimes we give the loudest people too much of our attention and we translate that to an untrue opinion of ourself. 

Do not let the loud ones steal your self worth and joy.  Don’t give it away.  They have no right to it because they are only concerned about their needs and what they want. 

Let me repeat two things today:
1.  The loudest one in the room is the weakest one in the room.  Don’t listen to their noise.
2.  Each day is filled with choices.  You choose who, and what, you listen too.  You choose what you fill your mind with. 

One person, two people, even three people, do not make up, or reflect the opinion of the entire world. 

Stay in touch with the people that support you, will encourage you, and will lift you up.  I guarantee they will, and may be waiting to do so.   You never have to go it alone.

Make the choice as to what, and who you let into your thoughts and mind today. 

I’m cheering for you.

#leadership #motivation #coaching
#bebetter #beblessed

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Time For A Break

We go, go, go.  It seems like things just continue to happen and feels like we can never take a break.

While hard work is a given, what it takes, and is required, taking a planned break is good for us too.

I am taking one for a few days. I look forward to getting away, spending some time in the sun, seeing some old friends, and relaxing.

I believe in the need for small breaks here and there and that they can help us to become better.

There are still ways to get better while taking some time away.  Don’t forget to step back, step away, and catch your breath once in awhile. 

I’ll be back with you soon. 

I’m cheering for you.

#leadership #motivation #coaching #bebetter #beblessed