How You See Yourself Matters!

How do you see yourself?

Victor or Victim?
Winner or Loser?
Becoming or Done?

You had dreams.  Do you still have them?  If not rekindle the flame, the passion that used to drive you and get yourself back on the right track.

There are people out there that believe in you and they will believe in you more, trust you more and even love you more if you see yourself as a victor, a winner and a person who is still working to become more each and every day.

When you look in the mirror see the potential in yourself that others do.  Be determined to take a risk and bet on yourself.

Believe in you.

I’m cheering for you.

#leadership #motivation #coaching
#bebetter #beblessed

Be The Reason


Be the reason someone smiles today!

Seems like a simple thing to do doesn’t it?

Why do we sometimes make living and leading so hard?

I believe it can be a simple three step formula and I’m giving it away for free today.

Here it is:
–Be kind to people.
–Greet people you see and smile.
–Remember your blessings and be thankful.

One simple gesture to someone may be the difference they need today to make it through their day. 

Be a difference maker for someone today.

Be the reason someone smiles today.

I’m cheering for you.

#leadership #motivation #coaching
#bebetter #beblessed

Not If, But When!


What’s next? 

What are your dreams for the future? 

Do you believe your dreams will come true and are going to happen?

Too many people want change but lack the mindset, confidence and perseverance  to see it through.

Discard any negative mindset that may creep into your head.

Discard the “if”. 

If you continually fill your mind with negative thoughts, are pessimistic and engage in negative behaviors you can be sure that they will turn into negative self fulfilling prophecies.

Today, believe that what you want will happen when the time is right and you are ready.  Be positive and believe in your dreams and your vision. 

Believe that if you have a plan, work the plan and are patient your best days will happen with a positive and persistent mindset. 

Remove the word “if” from the conversation and look forward to the “WHEN”.

I’m Cheering For You.

#leadership #motivation #coaching
#bebetter #beblessed

You Get Stronger

Nobody said life would be easy. It’s not easy for anyone but you have a choice. You can use the good and the bad that happens to you to be bitter or be better.

If you are reading this I believe you know how to use and navigate everything that life has to throw at you because you are a learner and striving to be better every day.

You don’t always like it. You may wonder what the point of some of it is but you know things worthwhile don’t always come easy or in the time frame that we may always want them to.

While you navigate the tough stuff you can be confident that you are getting stronger because of it and as you go through it.

Every day is about being a little bit better than the day before, even if just a little. When life gets hard you still have an opportunity and a choice to be better and be stronger.

You can do it.

I’m cheering for you.

#leadership #motivation #coaching
#bebetter #beblessed

Gratitude Lens

Grateful is defined as appreciative of benefits received; affording pleasure or contentment.  Couldn’t we stand to be reminded to be grateful from time to time?
Some days being grateful is really hard to do. 

When I feel like I am in a rut or my mood gets a bit down I like to remind myself to be grateful.  To see the world through a different lens.  A lens of gratitude.

How do I like to do that?  My favorite thing to do is to go to the camera roll on my phone and scroll through my pictures and I am reminded of the moments, memories and good times. 

I may even pair that with a gratitude walk to get a change of scenery and some fresh air.
My mood changes and I am reminded that I  have much to be grateful for. 

I then mentally or physically write down at least three things I am grateful for as a reminder to live and lead with a thankful heart.

If you ever feel like you need to adjust your attitude or perspective I would encourage you take a gratitude break.  It will help you live with appreciation, pleasure and contentment.

I’m cheering for you.

#leadership #motivation #coaching #bebetter #beblessed