No Regrets

Eleanor Roosevelt achieved a lot in her life and was asked once how she was able to accomplish so much in her lifetime.  

She responded by saying “I never waste time with regrets.”

How much time do we waste thinking about and living with things that have happened, either to us or because of our own actions?

Too much time?

A regret is a feeling of sadness, repentance, or disappointment over something that has happened or been done, especially a loss or missed opportunity. 

Being able to overcome those things takes strength, courage and intentional repeated actions because, as much as we would like them not to, tough things are going to happen and we will mess up plenty on our own. 

But that doesn’t have to be the end of the story.  Living in the moment requires learning from the past, but not living in it or with regrets of what we experienced or what we did, or did not do. 

We will be at our best, continue to become more, and contribute more positively to those around us when we, like Eleanor Roosevelt, do not waste time with regrets. 

Do your best to move on and be engaged in the moments in front of you today.  Those are the moments that matter most. 

I’m cheering for you. 

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How does dwelling on past regrets hinder our ability to live fully in the present and contribute positively to our lives and the lives of others?

2.  What strategies can individuals employ to cultivate a mindset like Eleanor Roosevelt’s, where they do not waste time with regrets but instead focus on learning from the past and being fully engaged in the present moment?

Philippians 3:13 ESV‬

“Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead.”

In Philippians 3:13, the Apostle Paul reflects on his own journey of faith, acknowledging that he has not yet reached the pinnacle of spiritual maturity. 

Despite this, he emphasizes a singular focus: forgetting what lies behind and pressing forward toward what lies ahead. 

This verse highlights a timeless truth applicable to all aspects of life.  By letting go of past regrets, mistakes, and failures, individuals can free themselves from the burden of what cannot be changed. 

Instead, you are encouraged to channel your energy and efforts towards the present moment and the opportunities that await in the future. 

It’s a call to action, urging you to embrace each day with renewed determination and hope, knowing that God’s grace sustains you and His plans for you are filled with promise. 

In essence, Philippians 3:13 inspires a mindset of resilience, perseverance, and forward motion, essential for navigating life’s challenges and fulfilling your purpose.

Be Blessed!

Questions to Ponder and Pursue

1.  How does the Christian faith inform your understanding of the importance of leaving behind past regrets and focusing on moving forward in your journey with God?

     a.  Is their anything in your life that you need to leave behind?

2.  In what ways do prayer, scripture study, and fellowship with other believers empower Christians to embody the principle of pressing forward in faith, despite past mistakes or hardships?

Published by toddagordon

Meet Todd Gordon, a seasoned educator, coach, and activities administrator who dedicated an impressive 37 years to shaping the lives of students within the realm of education.  His career has taken him on a remarkable journey through nine different school districts, ranging from the intimate setting of a small school to the dynamic landscape of a large, multi-high school urban district – truly everything in between. In 2022, Todd embarked on a new chapter, retiring from his illustrious career in education. However, retirement did not signal an end to his passion for making a positive impact in the realm of sports and activities.  Todd joined BOUND, a leading sports software company, where he continues to contribute his wealth of experience and knowledge to support activity administrators and coaches. Beyond the professional arena, Todd’s personal life is a testament to dedication and enduring love.  Married to his wife, Deb, for an impressive 40 years, they have navigated life’s journey together.  Their family has grown to include three married children, each on their unique paths, and six delightful grandchildren who bring joy and laughter to their lives. Todd authored and published his first book, “The Power of One.  One Word Leadership”, in 2022.   His newest project is the “The Pursuit”, and it starts with new writings on a new page on this website.  Todd delves into the essence of your daily pursuit of excellence, offering insights on growth, resilience, and the power of redemption.  By weaving daily Scripture insights into our exploration, we bridge the timeless with the contemporary, inviting you to reflect on leadership principles grounded in spiritual wisdom.

One thought on “No Regrets

  1. Another “Wow” Todd. Love how God is using you to challenge all of us to move forward in our life seeking to know His will for our everyday life. Love ya, son!

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