Last spring, we spent Spring Break in Arizona. One of the day trips we took was to the Grand Canyon and my brother-in-law drove. I normally do all the driving, enjoy driving and like being in control in that situation. That day, I was a rider. It was difficult but here are three lessons I took away from the experience.
1. RELAX – Sometimes we’re not going to be in control of a project or situation. The adage “Control What You Can Control” applies to every situation. Every single situation. I wasn’t going to change the fact that I was not driving. I decided to relax and enjoy the ride.
2. DON’T MICROMANAGE – Nobody likes backseat drivers or riders seat drivers. Letting people do what they are supposed to do is difficult sometimes, but we need to let it happen. It may not be how we would do it, but we need to accept that. We also may find there is a better or different way to get to where we are going that is different than what we had even thought about.
3. ENJOY THE OPPORTUNITY – Not driving allowed me to sit back and enjoy the beauty of the drive (ride), think in a different way (in a different seat) and not be so locked into the responsibility of driving. So, you’re not driving or in charge. Enjoy a different role and find ways to make it useful for you and everyone involved.
You may not always have to or be able to drive or be in charge. Find ways to be a good right hand man or woman and contribute to the experience. You may find it to be quite enjoyable too.
Meet Todd Gordon, a seasoned educator, coach, and activities administrator who dedicated an impressive 37 years to shaping the lives of students within the realm of education. His career has taken him on a remarkable journey through nine different school districts, ranging from the intimate setting of a small school to the dynamic landscape of a large, multi-high school urban district – truly everything in between.
In 2022, Todd embarked on a new chapter, retiring from his illustrious career in education. However, retirement did not signal an end to his passion for making a positive impact in the realm of sports and activities. Todd joined BOUND, a leading sports software company, where he continues to contribute his wealth of experience and knowledge to support activity administrators and coaches.
Beyond the professional arena, Todd’s personal life is a testament to dedication and enduring love. Married to his wife, Deb, for an impressive 40 years, they have navigated life’s journey together. Their family has grown to include three married children, each on their unique paths, and six delightful grandchildren who bring joy and laughter to their lives.
Todd authored and published his first book, “The Power of One. One Word Leadership”, in 2022.
His newest project is the “The Pursuit”, and it starts with new writings on a new page on this website. Todd delves into the essence of your daily pursuit of excellence, offering insights on growth, resilience, and the power of redemption. By weaving daily Scripture insights into our exploration, we bridge the timeless with the contemporary, inviting you to reflect on leadership principles grounded in spiritual wisdom.
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