Each Friday, the six former Athletic Directors that work for BOUND do an episode in a professional development series called “Beyond BOUND”. After the person who is leading presents whatever they are presenting on that day we go around the horn with a few comments from everyone.
This is the episode from today (1-12-24) where I tell a story about filling up some ice cube trays and the lessons we can learn from that.
Welcome to a journey of purpose and growth in “The Pursuit” newsletter! Here, we delve into life’s most profound pursuits, commencing with our pursuit of God.
Every Monday and Thursday, join me as we explore leadership insights intertwined with scriptural reflections, fostering thoughts and moments of contemplation.
Throughout this journey, we’ll navigate the multifaceted pursuit of God, embracing and pursuing themes of redemption, renewal, reawakening, dreams, change, growth, moments, purpose, success, and strength.
Each post is a guide for introspection and inspiration, merging timeless wisdom with contemporary leadership principles.
Together, let’s embark on a path that transcends the ordinary – a pursuit that encompasses the essence of our existence.
Join me in discovering the richness of life’s pursuits, finding meaning, and unlocking the keys to leadership that resonate on a spiritual level.
The word of the day is conundrum. A conundrum is defined as a confusing and difficult problem or question.
The conundrum is the the struggle to make others happy but not forgetting about yourself.
We talk about, and practice servant leadership, putting others first, and while that is what I believe we are called to do and be, it can lead to the conundrum.
While you serve others you also need to make sure to make and take time for yourself.
Here are three ways to help you through the conundrum.
1. Take Time For Yourself – it’s not selfish, it’s needed. You can’t be at your best for others if you don’t take time to take care of you. That care can look different to each person, but find what helps you and do it consistently.
2. Talk Yourself Up – the most important conversation you have each day is with yourself. You are wired, by human nature, for negativity. You must eliminate that negative talk and replace it with positivity. Speak affirmation and value into yourself.
3. Believe – believe that taking care of you is as important and meaningful as taking care of others. If you believe in yourself, and what you believe in is real and authentic, you will be better equipped to take care of others.
When you experience your conundrum remember to take time for yourself, talk yourself up, and believe.
Do you believe your dreams will come true and are going to happen?
Too many people want change but lack the mindset, confidence, and perseverance to see it through.
Discard any negative mindsets that may creep into your head.
Discard the “if”.
If you continually fill your mind with negative thoughts, are pessimistic, and engage in negative behaviors, you can be sure that they will turn into negative self fulfilling prophecies.
Today, believe that what you want will happen when the time is right and when you are ready. Be positive and believe in your dreams and your vision.
Believe that if you have a plan, work the plan, and are patient your best days will happen with a positive and persistent mindset.
Remove the word “if” from the conversation and look forward to the “WHEN”.