I used to always use the “Golden Rule” in my classroom as a starting point for treating others. “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”
Now I believe there is something more.
“Do for others what they can’t do for themselves.”
You have been given unique talents and gifts so it becomes important for you to use those to lift others up and help them get to places they cannot get to on their own.
I believe that what we give away to others we get back in return and it is returned in abundance. It is not given for the return but as a heart felt gift. The return is a bonus.
Whether you have alot to give or just a little you have the ability and the opportunity to help someone do what they can’t do for themselves. The important thing is that you give.
People love to tell you what you should and should not do. Too often we let other peoples opinions dictate what we believe we can and cannot do. Don’t let that be case.
When someone tells you that “you can’t do that” most of the time it is to protect themselves from looking bad due to their lack of initiative. Don’t let someone else’s lack of initiative creep into your dreams and your desires for improvement.
Difference makers are dreamers, creators, and doers. They are intentional about being learners, thinkers, and getting better every day.
There is no limit to what you can do if you believe, develop a plan, and dare to step out across the line that the majority of people will stay behind.
If you are around people with no desire to grow then it may be time to be around a different group of people. Seek out people who will believe with you, believe in you, support you, and will be an encourager in your life.
The people who set limits on you have no vision and it is time to leave them behind because they are stuck by choice and they don’t get to choose that for you unless you let them.
The most important conversation that you have every day is with yourself. You can’t lead others unless you lead yourself first.
If you need a little help with that, and let’s be honest, we all do. Take a moment to read this letter to yourself. Repeat as needed. —– Dear Me,
Just a quick reminder:
You matter. In the chaos of life, don’t forget your worth. Your actions, your thoughts, they all leave a mark.
Challenges may come, but remember your strength. Embrace flaws; they’re part of you.
Past victories prove your resilience. You’re not alone; ask for help.
Dreams? They’re worth pursuing. Take care—physically, mentally.
Uncertainty’s okay; it’s where you grow. Your journey, your story, are unique.
Believe, trust, and always remember: You matter.
Stay awesome, You —– I’m cheering for you.
Questions to Ponder and Pursue
1. How can embracing your flaws and recognizing your past victories contribute to a stronger sense of self-worth and resilience?
2. In what ways can the practice of self-affirmation, as suggested in the letter, enhance your ability to lead others effectively?
A Letter To Me From Psalm 27:1
Dear Me,
Remember Psalm 27:1: “The Lord is my light and my salvation—whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life—of whom shall I be afraid?”
In times of doubt, picture the Lord as a mighty fortress, unshakeable and steadfast. He is your light, guiding you through darkness, and His salvation assures you that you are never alone.
Draw strength from His presence. When fear creeps in, remind yourself of this verse. Let it be your shield and your confidence. The Lord is with you, He is for you, and He is your protector.
Stay strong, keep your faith, and trust in His unwavering support. You’ve faced storms before and emerged stronger. With Him by your side, you’ll continue to rise above whatever comes your way.
Believe in yourself and in His power. You are not alone. You are deeply loved by the Creator of heaven and earth, and He knows your name.
With strength and hope,
You
Questions to Ponder and Pursue
1. How can reflecting on Psalm 27:1 help you overcome fear and uncertainty in your daily life?
2. In what ways can you actively draw strength from your faith, especially during challenging times?
In our daily journey challenges and hardships are inevitable, but Proverbs 15:15 offers a profound truth for the Christ follower: “All the days of the afflicted are evil, but the cheerful of heart has a continual feast.”
This verse reminds us that while trials may come, a heart anchored in joy and gratitude transforms our perspective, and can help us to be content.
As believers, our joy isn’t rooted in circumstances but in the unchanging love and grace of God.
Embrace a cheerful heart, for it is a wellspring of life, turning each day into a celebration of God’s goodness.
Let gratitude and faith fill your heart, creating a continual feast of peace, hope, and joy. No matter the trials, trust in God’s promises, and let your heart overflow with the joy that comes from His everlasting presence.
From everlasting to everlasting. Trust in the eternal God. That’s a true feast.