Winning is special. Winning is fun, but you can’t truly appreciate the winning without some defeats.
Life is going to have you feeling defeated at times, so here are five suggestions to help you handle the defeats that may come your way.
1. Check your perspective. Are you focused on feeling defeated or the things that are going well? Find some positives.
2. What are you learning? Look past the defeat. How are you getting better? How are you getting stronger?
3. You don’t have to like defeat, but sometimes you have to accept it. Defeat has happened, but what’s next? What’s next is what matters now.
4. You will survive. You will live to see and to fight another day. Compete. Competitors find a way to win.
5. Don’t give up; don’t ever give up!” – Jim Valvano
Many people have come through defeats in their life, and you will too.
I’m cheering for you.
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Meet Todd Gordon, a seasoned educator, coach, and activities administrator who dedicated an impressive 37 years to shaping the lives of students within the realm of education. His career has taken him on a remarkable journey through nine different school districts, ranging from the intimate setting of a small school to the dynamic landscape of a large, multi-high school urban district – truly everything in between.
In 2022, Todd embarked on a new chapter, retiring from his illustrious career in education. However, retirement did not signal an end to his passion for making a positive impact in the realm of sports and activities. Todd joined BOUND, a leading sports software company, where he continues to contribute his wealth of experience and knowledge to support activity administrators and coaches.
Beyond the professional arena, Todd’s personal life is a testament to dedication and enduring love. Married to his wife, Deb, for an impressive 40 years, they have navigated life’s journey together. Their family has grown to include three married children, each on their unique paths, and six delightful grandchildren who bring joy and laughter to their lives.
Todd authored and published his first book, “The Power of One. One Word Leadership”, in 2022.
His newest project is the “The Pursuit”, and it starts with new writings on a new page on this website. Todd delves into the essence of your daily pursuit of excellence, offering insights on growth, resilience, and the power of redemption. By weaving daily Scripture insights into our exploration, we bridge the timeless with the contemporary, inviting you to reflect on leadership principles grounded in spiritual wisdom.
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SOOO true, Todd! May we always remember those importat truths. God bless you and ALL of yours! Love you and yours!
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SOOO true, Todd! May we always remember those importat truths. God bless you and ALL of yours! Love you and yours!