Have you ever found yourself in trouble because you say something too quickly? Have you ever said something and then wish you hadn’t? Don’t beat yourself up over it.
I have, you have, and we know it is very likely that everyone else has too. The larger question is have you learned from it.
Sometimes the best thing we can do for someone else is to hold our tongue. It is easy to want to offer an opinion right away but often times this just escalates a situation and may damage the relationship.
A healthy relationship is still the first major step to being an effective leader, mentor, and friend. Keeping it healthy may mean not speaking so quickly.
Use your two ears to listen intently, think through the ramifications of your response, and lean on your experience before you offer your opinion or advice. This exhibits discipline and will bring wisdom.
19th Century British Journalist George Sala said it this way:
“We should strive not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficult, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment.”
It is important for you to say the right words, and to say them at the right time.
Meet Todd Gordon, a seasoned educator, coach, and activities administrator who dedicated an impressive 37 years to shaping the lives of students within the realm of education. His career has taken him on a remarkable journey through nine different school districts, ranging from the intimate setting of a small school to the dynamic landscape of a large, multi-high school urban district – truly everything in between.
In 2022, Todd embarked on a new chapter, retiring from his illustrious career in education. However, retirement did not signal an end to his passion for making a positive impact in the realm of sports and activities. Todd joined BOUND, a leading sports software company, where he continues to contribute his wealth of experience and knowledge to support activity administrators and coaches.
Beyond the professional arena, Todd’s personal life is a testament to dedication and enduring love. Married to his wife, Deb, for an impressive 40 years, they have navigated life’s journey together. Their family has grown to include three married children, each on their unique paths, and six delightful grandchildren who bring joy and laughter to their lives.
Todd authored and published his first book, “The Power of One. One Word Leadership”, in 2022.
His newest project is the “The Pursuit”, and it starts with new writings on a new page on this website. Todd delves into the essence of your daily pursuit of excellence, offering insights on growth, resilience, and the power of redemption. By weaving daily Scripture insights into our exploration, we bridge the timeless with the contemporary, inviting you to reflect on leadership principles grounded in spiritual wisdom.
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