Part of what I decided to do this fall was to help out with an officiating shortage and officiate volleyball.
The other night I worked with a veteran official who works more college volleyball than high school but was working that night. He also had been a college volleyball coach for a number of years.
We talked during and after the match and he helped make me better at officiating. The way he did it was a good lesson for all of us.
Here is how he did it:
1) He asked if he could share some pointers. I thought that was really thoughtful. He didn’t push them on me.
I have experienced the other way too where someone just offers their opinion uninvited and it can lead to a negative experience.
2) He shared in a kind way with compliments. He found some positives and then offered some areas to improve on after that.
3) He shared his knowledge. He obviously had experience and extensive knowledge with the game of volleyball and shared it with me.
I had already worked with an official this season who had more knowledge than me but didn’t share any of it. Another lesson perhaps for another day.
This positive lesson happened though because I believe number one and two were done before number three.
I hope this helps you in some small way as you continue to lead and live with those around you. It did me.
Meet Todd Gordon, a seasoned educator, coach, and activities administrator who dedicated an impressive 37 years to shaping the lives of students within the realm of education. His career has taken him on a remarkable journey through nine different school districts, ranging from the intimate setting of a small school to the dynamic landscape of a large, multi-high school urban district – truly everything in between.
In 2022, Todd embarked on a new chapter, retiring from his illustrious career in education. However, retirement did not signal an end to his passion for making a positive impact in the realm of sports and activities. Todd joined BOUND, a leading sports software company, where he continues to contribute his wealth of experience and knowledge to support activity administrators and coaches.
Beyond the professional arena, Todd’s personal life is a testament to dedication and enduring love. Married to his wife, Deb, for an impressive 40 years, they have navigated life’s journey together. Their family has grown to include three married children, each on their unique paths, and six delightful grandchildren who bring joy and laughter to their lives.
Todd authored and published his first book, “The Power of One. One Word Leadership”, in 2022.
His newest project is the “The Pursuit”, and it starts with new writings on a new page on this website. Todd delves into the essence of your daily pursuit of excellence, offering insights on growth, resilience, and the power of redemption. By weaving daily Scripture insights into our exploration, we bridge the timeless with the contemporary, inviting you to reflect on leadership principles grounded in spiritual wisdom.
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