People Can’t Break You If They Don’t Make You

There are a lot of angry people in the world and some days it seems like they all live and work around me. 

The good news is that they don’t.  Too often we let people get inside of our head or play with our emotions and they have no right to either one.

Some people are better at ignoring the pests that buzz around in my head than I am.  I know that everyone cannot be pleased but I’m lying if I say it doesn’t bother me sometimes.

So how do I combat it? 

1.  I eventually realize that the person who is angry will eventually be angry and talk bad about somebody else very soon.  It’s usually their nature, almost a hobby for them.

2.  I realized that their opinion of me doesn’t make me and in the long run the truth will win.  It always does.

3.  They are not a majority.  They are loud and the loudest one in the room is usually the weakest one in the room.

At the end of the day the people throwing stones don’t get to break you because they had no hand in making you who you are. 

Keep your head up and lean on those who truly support you.  They are likely waiting to lift you up.

I’m cheering for you.

#leadership #motivation #coaching
#bebetter #beblessed

Published by toddagordon

Meet Todd Gordon, a seasoned educator, coach, and activities administrator who dedicated an impressive 37 years to shaping the lives of students within the realm of education.  His career has taken him on a remarkable journey through nine different school districts, ranging from the intimate setting of a small school to the dynamic landscape of a large, multi-high school urban district – truly everything in between. In 2022, Todd embarked on a new chapter, retiring from his illustrious career in education. However, retirement did not signal an end to his passion for making a positive impact in the realm of sports and activities.  Todd joined BOUND, a leading sports software company, where he continues to contribute his wealth of experience and knowledge to support activity administrators and coaches. Beyond the professional arena, Todd’s personal life is a testament to dedication and enduring love.  Married to his wife, Deb, for an impressive 40 years, they have navigated life’s journey together.  Their family has grown to include three married children, each on their unique paths, and six delightful grandchildren who bring joy and laughter to their lives. Todd authored and published his first book, “The Power of One.  One Word Leadership”, in 2022.   His newest project is the “The Pursuit”, and it starts with new writings on a new page on this website.  Todd delves into the essence of your daily pursuit of excellence, offering insights on growth, resilience, and the power of redemption.  By weaving daily Scripture insights into our exploration, we bridge the timeless with the contemporary, inviting you to reflect on leadership principles grounded in spiritual wisdom.

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