I was talking with our student leaders in our Tuesday morning rAM Leadership session this week and we were talking about failure and how we can use it to help us be successful.
I shared one line with them that I’ve thought about a lot this week. “Your desire to succeed must be greater than your fear of failure.”
You have dreams. You have goals. You have things that you absolutely love to do or have your sights set on doing. Plans are made and you set out on the journey to accomplish your goal.
Then what happens? Life hits you right between the eyes. The critics start. Doubt creeps in and very soon the dream dies.
I have used this stat before but here it is again. Only eight percent of people actually achieve their dreams. So how do you stay away from being one of the 92 percent?
1. Don’t fear failure. You may have setbacks but if you learn from a hardship you have the ability to adjust, adapt and eventually overcome any setback.
2. Once you start the pursuit don’t quit. Too many people quit too early. Often times success is right around the next corner. Keep moving forward toward that corner even if it’s slowly. Slow progress is better than no progress.
3. The critics don’t get to decide if your dream will come true. You do. If only eight percent actually achieve their dreams that means that many of those 92 percent that are left are going to want to keep you from achieving yours because it will make them look bad. They will try to hold you back. Don’t give them permission to do that.
If it sets your soul on fire then it is worth relentlessly pursuing without fear. Pursue it and don’t give up on it.
Meet Todd Gordon, a seasoned educator, coach, and activities administrator who dedicated an impressive 37 years to shaping the lives of students within the realm of education. His career has taken him on a remarkable journey through nine different school districts, ranging from the intimate setting of a small school to the dynamic landscape of a large, multi-high school urban district – truly everything in between.
In 2022, Todd embarked on a new chapter, retiring from his illustrious career in education. However, retirement did not signal an end to his passion for making a positive impact in the realm of sports and activities. Todd joined BOUND, a leading sports software company, where he continues to contribute his wealth of experience and knowledge to support activity administrators and coaches.
Beyond the professional arena, Todd’s personal life is a testament to dedication and enduring love. Married to his wife, Deb, for an impressive 40 years, they have navigated life’s journey together. Their family has grown to include three married children, each on their unique paths, and six delightful grandchildren who bring joy and laughter to their lives.
Todd authored and published his first book, “The Power of One. One Word Leadership”, in 2022.
His newest project is the “The Pursuit”, and it starts with new writings on a new page on this website. Todd delves into the essence of your daily pursuit of excellence, offering insights on growth, resilience, and the power of redemption. By weaving daily Scripture insights into our exploration, we bridge the timeless with the contemporary, inviting you to reflect on leadership principles grounded in spiritual wisdom.
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